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I am married to the love of my life and am finally able to shower him with all of the attention he deserves. I am now retired and living the life here in Europe. I am an American, he is an Australian, and this is our second overseas address. The first was Shanghai, China and now Munich, Germany. Come along and live the life with us as we continue our adventure of discovering all Europe has to offer.

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Saturday, July 17, 2010

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!






OUR LITTLE MISSY SURE HAS HER HOOP SKILLS DOWN

On top of that, she is holding a wad of cash in her hand with a death hold grip!  



She was so excited to celebrate her Daddy's birthday with us today.  Auntie Lona made a Taco Bar and Fajita's for the festivities.  Afterwords, we celebrated with cake and ice cream and then the games began. The family paired up and the silliness ensued.  Today they played, "Minute to Win It," and she  won a number of challenges such as stacking Ding Dongs on her forehead.  

They stacked apples, carried cotton balls in spoons they held in their mouth while crawling across the finish line, knocked over empty pop cans with an orange in a nylon tied to a belt around their waist, and tried to keep three balloons in the air for a full minute.  


Missy's daddy and her Papa were winners too!  They survived all of the games, but nearly succumbed to the rigors of bouncing their heads with a pedometer clipped to a headband
in order to see who had the largest number of head shakes!   Papa reminded us of Joe Cocker as he bobbed his head up and down.

"IT'S MINE, ALL MINE!!"

For each win, the contestant received one crisp dollar bill from Mimi and Papa.  

The race was on.  It didn't take any encouragement to involve the participants. Pitting sister against brother, father against son, and brother against brother, and cousin against cousin~~ to the victors went the spoils!

 
Hoola hoop in hand, our little Miss was confident of winning any contest in which a hoola hoop was involved (but did she know that she was going to blow bubbles through it??)  Probably not, but nothing was going defeat her.


There were no losers, only winners, and all were delighted with their personal game achievements. My son, the birthday boy, was thrilled to be with his children and family for such a fun-filled day.  His brother, pictured above with Missy and her brother, was equally thrilled to have his nephews and niece come to visit. 

It was a day filled with love and fun for all.

 


Thursday, July 15, 2010

RANDOM THOUGHT THURSDAY

  • Hubby forgot we had an en suite bath in the master bedroom upon returning to the U.S. ( It is his first trip back in a year.)
  • Pleased to see that the 5 year-old twin grandchildren can put their own seat belts on, dress themselves, put on their own shoes, make their own beds, clean the table after meals, brush their own teeth, and clean the toys in the playroom each evening.  They are growing up so fast.
  • Gearing up for my 11 year-old grandson to travel back to Europe with me.  Paris for three days and then Munich for three weeks! 
  • Disappointed in Mel Gibson......what a creep.
  • Hope I allow enough space in luggage to bring back all of the clothes I bought while I've been in the U.S.
  • I forgot we had a PC, desktop monitor, and keyboard stored here at the house.  It will be great for the grandchildren to download learning software. 
  • Getting a new Apple laptop for my photography this week!  Whoo Hoo!
  • Glad the 5 and 6 year-old grand kids can ride their bikes without training wheels and swim the length of the pool.  Thank you, Papa Steve, for all of your efforts.  You are the BEST papa in the whole wide world!
  • My first born will turn 39 on July 31st.  How did that happen?????
  • Swam with the kids this morning and taking my granddaughter out shopping this afternoon. Then meet the guys for "Toy Story 3."  It is way too hot to be outside doing anything today.
  • It's great to come back home and have our own beds, coffee pot, big screen TV, car, etc.  A fully furnished home in two continents makes life so much easier!
  • Son # 2 had the floor of the shed cemented.  He took everything out of the garage and organized it all in the shed.  Now, the garage only has a refrigerator and four locked cabinets in it.  I still can't believe it is our garage it is so immaculate.
  • The house next door sold in two weeks at the "asking price."  We should have no trouble selling our home now.
  • "Inception" tomorrow.
  •   Hubby and son installing third set of locks on all doors.  Five year-old grandson is a Runner!!  He can pick just about any lock.  Thought I'd get him an orange jumpsuit now, he'll need it in the future, LOL!  :-)
  • Out of 50,000 global employees, my hubby just won the companies' "2010 Innovation Award."  (More about this in a future blog).
  • Missed 3 bridge games--hope I still remember how to play when we return to Germany on the 24th.
  • Hubby booked a weekend on Lake Como, Italy for us and our 11 year-old grandson.  (Lake Como is where George Clooney's villa is--I hope to have a celebrity sighting!)
  • Still having "Tour de France" fatigue....

Wednesday, July 14, 2010

POUR OUT YOUR HEART WEDNESDAY



 


I just received information from a former colleague that one of my previous co-workers was assaulted on the job this week.  This is shocking under any circumstance, but the fact that my former place of employment was a state prison makes it less shocking and clearly an inescapable occupational hazard. 

Nevertheless, it is a breach of security and for that reason, always unpredictable.  But, in this case, the common reaction was, "It was a long time coming."





  
      Knowing the proper way to communicate with inmates is a skill. Not knowing how to interact with inmates can be lethal.  Everyone wants to be respected, even the lowest of the low.  Failure to treat another human being fairly will only result in contempt.  Failure to treat a human being fairly in captivity, where he is already being stretched emotionally, is begging for trouble.  


     Correctional Officers have to know how to deal with all kinds of behaviors and quickly learn to be diligent while patient.  It is for this reason that many CO's do not want to know why an inmate has been incarcerated.  Once you know how heinous their crime is, you tend to treat them differently.  Prison staff is instructed to follow procedures and not cause undue stress on the inmates--their incarceration is their punishment .

    However, being a GED teacher in an inmate population is very different from a CO's responsibility.  In the openness of the classroom, there is more opportunity for interchange and discussion between the instructor and the inmate than there is between any other member of prison staff. There is also a greater chance for inmates to share information--of the kind that should not be shared.  And, with more communication, comes the greater the likelihood for conflict. Teachers, to be effective, must know how to manage all of these complexities while displaying a sense of fairness and the necessity to follow protocol.

 
 
      There is a very fine line between maintaining control of a classroom and becoming the very authoritarian figure many of these men have spent a lifetime opposing.  Unable to follow societies' rules, they typically have a laundry list of felonies and now have finally landed themselves in prison. 

     The prison I taught at was built as a Supermax in 2000, but now has 180 Minimum Security inmates, 48 Medium Security inmates, 921 Close Security inmates and 7 Maximum Security inmates.  These numbers indicate that the majority of its' clientele are not to be trusted.  They have committed violent and dangerous crimes.  Some have been given life sentences.

     Although the Institution of Rehabilitation and Corrections gives training in interpersonal communication, there will always be individuals who believe that they do not need to perfect their management skills.  Such is the case with the teacher who was cold-cocked this week by an inmate.  With no prior warning, an irritated and frustrated prisoner, with a very short fuse, let his anger get the best of him and managed to incapacitate the teacher. The instructor probably never saw it coming; but he should have--a long time ago.


        
      Without going into detail, because I don't know all of the facts, I will just go on record saying that after many years of poor teaching practices, it is amazing this incident took so long to happen.  For years inmates have been threatening to do the very same thing to him.  It just took the right man at the right time to see it through.

     This was  unfortunate and could easily have been avoided if the teacher in question would have taken the instruction he was given by the institution seriously, taken his duty as a teacher seriously, and most importantly, followed security regulations.  Putting yourself in danger is not smart, but comes with complacency and a belief that one is indestructible.  It doesn't take a rocket scientist to know what buttons should never be pushed and not to push them.  Continuing to be a catalyst for conflict is a recipe for disaster. 

     As much as I hate to see this happen to any teacher, I have to agree with my former colleagues on this one----it was inevitable. I wish him a speedy recovery and I hope the lesson was learned.