EXPATS AGAIN

WEDNESDAY HODGEPODGE

2011-11-02T12:53:00.001+01:00

1. Who taught you how to cook?

Anyone who was willing to give me a lesson. My mother, mother-in-law, her mother, my daughter-in-law, a new mother-in-law, my sister and sister-in-law, and two new countries. My first mother-in-law taught me Hungarian dishes, her mother taught me Jewish dishes. My daughter-in-law is from Jordan and is a wonderful cook and has unbelievable patience with me in her kitchen. Her dishes are truly indescribably delicious. My mother-in-law, now, is from Australia and is very generous in teaching me what her son likes, except for the whole Vegemite thing. They can just keep that in Australia (hope I didn't offend any Aussies here, sorry.) Now, living in Germany, I have a plethora of willing teachers, both German and from all around the world. The International Women's Club of München, to which I belong, has an activity called "Clever Cooks" where members invite other members into their kitchens to learn how to recreate their favorite homemade dishes from there respective countries. This has proved to be a great way to learn ethnic dishes. I'm a cook learning in progress...

My beautiful, Jordanian, daughter-in-law & son

My beautiful, Urguyayan, daughter-in-law with son and grandson #2

My lovely sis and myself

Australian mother-in-law and my American uncle together in Munich (were we trying to matchmake or what, just kidding.)

2. Have you been told you think too much? Are too much of a perfectionist? Are too sensitive? Were they right?

I don't have to be told that I think too much. I'm still searching for the darn OFF button.

3. As a child did you have a favorite blanket or toy? Tell about it.

I did, but I haven't thought about it until Joyce posed this question. It was a doll that was soft and it was my height as a child of four or five. She actually was a Raggedy Ann doll with strips of elastic under her feet. I would put my foot into the elastic which would make her shoes go over mine. I held her hands outstretched and her head (soft doll) would flop on my shoulder and we would dance together the way I would dance with my dad while placing my feet on his feet. What a great memory (tears here). Thanks, Joyce, for conjuring up something I had long forgotten about. Why don't they make that kind of doll for little girls now a days? Would they like them as much as I did?

4. What 'institution' do you have the most faith in?

When I think of "institutions" I think of these guys, prisoners, because I once worked at an institution for the Department of Correction and Rehabilitation for the State of Ohio at this place, The Toledo Correctional Institution. I don't know how much correction we did there, but I did teach and many convicted criminals (think medium-maximum level facility that houses 1,850 prisoners in the city of Toledo.) did get their GEDs while I taught there.

Oh, that word institution is fully loaded, isn't it? Not a fan of institutions so I guess I will have to say none. Unfortunately, they are necessary in our society and have been forever.

No, I prefer to put my faith in Him who will not disappoint or abandon me.

As if!!

5. Chrysanthemums, pansies, burning bush, ornamental cabbage...your favorite in an autumn garden?

Oh....the burning bush, for sure. I just love them and fortunately I have them in the states. We will go back in April to do a lot of new plantings and I am sure I will stock up on these beauties for the fall season.

6. What superpower do the kids in your neighborhood seem to posses?

We have a girl, age 3, and a boy, age 2, above us in our apartment complex here in München. They are adorable little towhead blonds who keep their mummy and daddy very busy. As far as the city of Munich goes, we are fortunate to have a large garden (yard for the Americans) so the kiddies are out of doors as much as possible. They appear to have superpowers of unlimited energy as I look out to see a wearied set of parents. Perhaps I ought to offer to help out/babysit once in a while and give these two a break!

7. Are you a fan of the cranberry?

Mostly for it's medicinal purposes or as a a companion with vodka and lime on a sunny beach somewhere. But my sister-in-law (see #1) gave me her killer cranberry relish recipe for our Thanksgivings and I really do enjoy this dish.

8. Insert your own random thought here.

Hubby and I have decided to to do the "Love Dare" that was so popular a few years back after downloading the movie "Firepoof" with one of my favorite child actors, Kirk Cameron. We are not a marriage in trouble, but we have been married 12 years (second time for us both) and have learned how important it is to "Maintain" a marriage. Sensing a need to revisit what is important in a marriage and what work (yes, I did use the proper word) daily is needed to keep a marriage strong and beautiful, we decided to try it. We are on day four and it really is ~~exhausting~~ challenging to remind yourself each day of the things we often neglect in our busy lives that contribute to a wonderful marriage.

Although it is difficult, we are so happy we are doing this for us. Here is what hubby sent me today in an email from his office reminding me of our past four lessons:

Side note: He has the most perfect handwriting, doesn't he?

Hubby is oversimplifying this a bit.

Day 1 meant biting your tongue when you wanted to say something you shouldn't have.

Day 2 meant doing an act of kindness towards your mate, even if you didn't feel like it or felt they didn't deserve it. (See what I mean about tough?)

Day 3 meant going out of your daily routine to pick up a phone and check on your spouse just to see how they are doing. (We do this a lot anyways, but if you weren't into this habit, it could be easily interpreted as "checking up" on your spouse--a touchy area as shown on the movie, "Fireproof." Did I tell you we were both in tears at the end of this movie?)

Day 4 meant actually going out and buying something worthy of how much you love your mate, not something chintzy or cheap just to fulfill that day's challenge. (Sorry, I won't reveal what he got me, but I will tell you it took a lot of thought and was just what I needed! He did good! Oh, I will tell you I bought him two 100% cashmere sweaters to keep my loved one good and warm in Munich winters. He loved it and it was a great pleasure to see how happy it made him,:-)

Today, we are to tell our spouse 3 things that we do to cause him or her to be uncomfortable or irritated with us. (See what I mean about exhausting and difficult?? Can you imagine the work it takes to write this in a kind, loving, and not offensive way? Prayers needed that we don't have to decide who gets the house and kids after this challenge today!!)

He is really taking this seriously and so am I. ( Only good can come of this 40 day challenge, right?). Pray for us....please. It really is work people and we will need all the prayers we can get to get us through this challenge. I promised not to look ahead in the workbook, "The Love Dare," and I haven't, but God have mercy on my soul if it gets harder than this.

INTENSIVE GERMAN

2011-11-02T10:19:00.001+01:00

KRAÜTERGARTEN (Herbal Garden)

Monday, Nov.7th, I begin Intensive German classes, alas. I say that with foreboding because of all of the horror stories I hear from expats about their forays into German language and culture. But, not to be daunted, I will venture forth in my blissful ignorance of the myriad errors I will likely commit and do my best to become educated. My classes are every weekday from 9 am until 12:30 pm. Just enough time to rattle this old brain and challenge it's ability to still learn a new language. (Most of the Mandarin I have learned has disappeared and is only used in Chinese restaurants. I hope our lengthy years of living in Deutschland will imprint this language on my psyche so that I will not have it disappear as my Mandarin has.)

I am looking forward to being able to ~~speak without pantomime~~ communicate effectively with German speakers while also learning how to read in my (fourth?) language. I don't feel you can truly assimilate into a new culture without being able to speak and read the language. Only then will I feel a part of this country and not just a bystander. Also, I will learn the correct spelling, pronunciation, and names for the things I know have to "Americanize" for my family and friends to understand.

Wish me luck on this new adventure and cross your fingers that I will be able to pass the test that will allow me to travel overseas and guarantee that I will be able to re-enter Germany. The necessity of this validation is what has spurred me on to this quest, but now that it is imminent,I am looking forward to seeing how I do.

I will update you and share with you what will certainly be a difficult, yet rewarding, challenge.

SCHAFTLAND ON THE ISAR RIVER

2011-11-01T23:08:00.000+01:00

It was a glorious day today in München and a holiday too! Temperatures hovered around 55° and the hubby and I could not wait to enjoy the great outdoors so we headed about 20 miles south of us to walk along the Isar River. Alongside of the river is a canal and we found much firmer footing there than along the side of the river that is made up of large stones.

Autumn is in full here in Bavaria and as you can see, we were not alone in wanting to feel the crisp air and admire the panorama. People were walking, riding their bikes, roller blades, and horses. We even saw a guy on skates using his ski poles to push him along!

We took along a bottle of Wolfe Blass Australian Shiraz, a few wine glasses, cheese and apples for our mid-day snack. Tossing a blanket next to the river, we sat down to enjoy the scenery while feeling the sun on our faces.

After a few glasses, we continued our journey along the canal until we came upon a Gasthaus with a bier garden. The aroma of Nuremberg sausages and apfelstrudel was teasing us and it didn't take much for us to succumb.

Looking at this lovely salad, you might think I was being very healthy this afternoon, but this was just the starter. Along with the salad, I had roast pork, a knudle (dumpling), and warm sauteed purple cabbage (think of sweet and sour cabbage). Hubs had the sausages and then generously shared his warm apfelstrudel with cream sauce. YUM!

I hope we have more of these weekends before winter arrives. This week it will be sunny and near 60° so we plan to make the most of our days outdoors. Crossing my fingers that the leaves stay on the trees and we can continue to see their vibrant hues for a while longer.

PENNY FOR YOUR THOUGHTS

2011-10-31T09:46:00.001+01:00

Before 1917, in the U.S., you could send a postcard for only 1¢. After 1918, the price went up to 2¢, because of World War I. These postcards then became called "Penny Postcards."

The one above are of California, but each state, in fact each county in the U.S. is represented by a number of these historic "Penny Postcards."

This one of Buds Barbeque, Hilliard, is from Nassau County in Florida.

And from my hometown of Toledo, Ohio:

Yes, believe it or not, we DO have a yacht club and yes, it does have a marina today with proper yachts that sail in Lake Erie, along with other water craft.

I have spent the better part of the morning (shame on me) perusing this website:

Penny Postcards

If you would like to see how your hometown (or any town/city in the U.S.) was pictured and posted for a penny, click on the link above to see the website. These postcards are not for sale, but they do take scans from collectors to add to their library if you are a collector or just happen to have a few of these beauties in your possession.

I warn you, it's a time guzzler but well worth the look!

SCHLEIßHEIM PALACE

2011-10-29T02:34:00.003+02:00

I would like to apologize for the quality of these photos. I didn't take my trusty Canon to the Schleißheim Palace so I was at the mercy of my iPhone. I thought it would work for me, but clearly the photos could have been much better.

The Palace started with a country house in 1598 and hermitage founded by William V close to Dauchau Palace. His son extended the buildings between 1617 and 1623. After heavy destruction during WWII, it was reconstructed.

A baroque New Palace was built in 1701-1704 as a new residence. However, Bavaria was lost in the years of the War of Spanish Succession and the construction was interrupted.

Important works of art owned by the Bavarian State Picture Collections is exhibited in several rooms. Famous Flemish Baroque painters such as Peter Paul Rubens and Anthony van Dyck are here as well as the Italian artists Guido Reni, Alessandro Turchi and Carlo Dolci, but the Germans and Spanish painters also are represented.

The New Palace's East Side overlooks a spectacular park with a rare preserved baroque garden.

The Schlrißheim Palace has been used as a location for several motion pictures. The 1951 film, Decision Before Dawn, 1957 "Paths of Glory", and in 1961 "Last Year at Marienbad."

After the tour of the Palace we gathered for a lovely Bavarian Lunch at the Palace grounds. It was a great day in Munich.

WEDNESDAY HODGEPODGE

2011-10-26T11:23:00.000+02:00

1. What gives you goosebumps?

Misjudging a step on the escalator, my husband's hand touching the skin on my lower back, hitting the brakes to miss a collision, swallowing pills that stick in my throat, an unusual noise in the middle of the night, an unexpected hug from a sweet grandchild, my son's telling me how much I have influenced them, John Mayer's, "Come Back to Bed," and the perfect Chardonnay.

2. Halloween-are you a lover or a hater? Okay, that sounds harsh...Halloween-yay or nay?

Nay all of the way.

3. Can you respect someone you do not trust, and can you trust someone you do not respect?

Absolutely not. Neither can I love someone I don't respect--let alone trust them. Been there, tried that. It doesn't work! .

4. Apples or oranges? Yes, you have to choose.

Oranges, mandarins, clementines, tangerines, Minneola Tangelos, etc. Yum!

5. What is something you wish was in your town? (shop, restaurant, attraction, etc)

A good bagel shop.

6. What non-food item is in your refrigerator or freezer?

Sorry, all food. European refrigerator space is too precious to waste on anything but!

7. Are you at all superstitious?

No, but I do believe things happen for a reason and we cannot always chalk it up to coincidence. (This drives my husband crazy, but I find meaning where he will only see chance.)

But I do not believe in black cats, ladders, or a Friday the 13th kind of superstition.

I do, however, think there are signs and we need to be perceptive enough to understand them--premonitions of things to come. I have many circumstances in my life that I have documented that arouse thoughts that something good/bad will happen in the future and whoa.....then it does.

I'm not psychic, rather, I think some people are just attuned to their surroundings while others are not.

8. Insert your own random thought here.

I have taught about 8 gals the game of Chinese Mahjong and we meet every Wednesday afternoon to play. We have an open chair policy and published an invitation in the "Munich International Women's Club Newsletter" for next month. Four can play a game at one table and we now have two tables of players. I hope we can accommodate everyone. It is so fun watching the girls learn the game and the strategy. I'm looking forward to an active Mahjong group like we had in Shanghai with as many women who wish to play and a large enough venue. Wish us luck!

WEDNESDAY'S HODGEPODGE

2011-10-19T00:39:00.000+02:00

1. How do you typically react in a sudden, extreme, pressure-filled crisis? Would we want you nearby in an emergency?

No, I don't think I qualify as the best candidate in an emergency. I panic, quite honestly, and then I go into shock mode. Not the best in a bad situation.

2. Caramel apple-caramel sundae-caramel corn-caramel macchiato...of the four, which carmel treat would you choose?

Caramel sundae, yum!

3. Is there such a thing as destiny? Explain.
Biblically, yes. Our Lord knows our future--it is a part of His plan. I do believe in predestination.

4. What's your favorite piece of furniture? I'm referring to something currently in your possession as opposed to something on your wish list.

The lamp you see in the photo is one of a pair of floor lamps. The other one is on the opposite side of the cabinet. When we turn on the lights it gives the room a soft glow. I would say they are one of my favorite pieces. I purchased them in Shanghai when we lived there and they remind me of that time in our lives.

5. Wednesday night marks the start of the 2011 Baseball World Series. Did you know? Do you care? Will you be watching? Ever been to a professional baseball game? If you're not an American do you find the title 'World Series' annoying or amusing?

Sorry, baseball is not something I follow.

6. A sound that takes me back to my childhood is____________.

An ice cream truck. Instantly, I'm a kid again. (I'm beginning to see a pattern here.)

7. On average, once you've linked your hodgepodge post to mine how many other participant blogs do you visit? Do you ever come back to the Hodgepodge later in the day or even the day after to read posts?

I really do make an effort to visit each and every one. It is my goal to know each blogger. I am finding it much more interesting when I know a person's personality and circumstances in their life. It makes their blog a personal experience for me. I am retired, so I have the time to do this. Also, I figure that if a person takes the time to participate in this, the least I can do is appreciate the effort they took to do so. Guess that's the English teacher in me coming out. I really do appreciate it.

8. Insert your own random thought here.

Tomorrow I am teaching a group of ladies here in Munich how to play mahjong. There will be eight women, enough for two tables. Four of these women have never played before and I am hoping that they enjoy the game enough to want to continue playing with us. We play weekly and it is a great game to play while having fun with your friends while complex enough to be challenging. We have a great group of gals and a good competitive spirit. I'm hoping all goes well tomorrow as it is a difficult game to learn at first, but then it becomes addictive!

HER EYES, HER EYES...

2011-10-18T18:08:00.000+02:00

This is our little Miss Nee Nee, our 6th grandchild, photographed by me when she was four years old. She has just turned 7. It is one of the few closeups I have of her and her lovely eyes. This gal will never have to wear eye makeup as nature gave her all that she needs.

I am told by her parents that she is a burgeoning soccer player. This makes perfect sense to me because I have never known her to w-a-l-k anywhere, she is a natural born runner and loves to make haste wherever she goes.

Here she is in action! Our little Nee Nee with the wind beneath her feet (at age 6). It's a real job slowing her down. After all, she has things to do and people to see, you know.

She's a climber too! Actually, she is fearless and I would be two if I had a twin brother and another brother 11 months older like she does. The boys are twice her size, but that doesn't stop her from holding her own. She may be tiny, but she is scrappy and tough. Both boys have given up on trying to coerce her to do anything, physically. She spins, she tumbles, and she weaves herself away from their grasp. She stands her ground and will try any way she can to get her way, including batting those lovely eyelashes. (Hey, a girl has to use all of her gifts sometimes!) I've never seen such determination and competitive spirit in one so young. She wants nothing less than being the first at whatever she does. Nothing will keep her from reaching her destiny-- if she has anything to do with it.

But as rough and tumble as she is, she still likes to be the only little princess in the family. And that is a good thing too. I know she has captured my son's heart. He never had a sister and this little girl has got him wrapped around her little finger. Daddy's little girl all of the way.

Here she is last Halloween in her costume in the classroom offering her father a Halloween treat.

This picture says it all.

"DIRTY DEEDS, DONE DIRT CHEAP."

2011-10-18T00:18:00.001+02:00

ThomasMetz

macrumors newbie

Join Date: Oct 2011

Divorcing wife. Thanks iPhone 4s and Find My Friends

I got my wife a new 4s and loaded up find my friends without her knowing. She told me she was at her friends house in the east village. I've had suspicions about her meeting this guy who live uptown. Lo and behold, Find my Friends has her right there.

I just texted her asking where she was and the dumb b!otch said she was on 10th Street!! Thank you Apple, thank you App Store, thank you all. These beautiful treasure trove of screen shots going to play well when I meet her a$$ at the lawyer's office in a few weeks.

thankfully, she's the rich one.

Whoa!! The above post was posted to "MacRumors."

I have an old Apple 3-G and I am very happy with it, except I would like a camera upgrade, but that is no reason to buy the new 4s. I don't know if the app "Find My Friends" can be put on any phone, but this poor guy uploaded it to his wife's new iPhone that he bought her and then used it only to find her in a lie.

Ouch!

Some people have commented that this may be a fake post, but it easily could be the truth in many people's lives if they use this app.

Technology sure has opened the floodgates. It boggles the mind to think of how something like this innocuous app can be used for stealth. I can see it used by prosecutors in the courtroom. "Your honor, we have evidence from the accused's iPhone app that he was at the location of the crime at the very time the crime was being committed."

It gives me chills....

THE REST OF THE STORY

2011-10-15T22:29:00.000+02:00

Leaving Italy and driving north to Germany requires driving through the Dolomite mountains. In summer, this is usually a rather safe and scenic drive with some perilous twists and turns, but overall very enjoyable. In autumn, it's anyone's guess what the weather will be like in higher elevations. Good road travelers can get the early weather forecast and plan accordingly. But as we were due back from our week's vacation, we had to deal with whatever Mother Nature gave us, and she was in a foul mood on our return. Look carefully at the left of the picture above. That is not a large cloud. That, dear readers, is a mountain covered in SNOW! I know, right? Beautiful green grape vineyards in the foreground, and the Arctic in the background.

The more we drove, the more evidence there was that we had left the land of sunshine and sandy beaches in Sardinia and were headed towards the snowy mountain caps of Innsbruck, Austria and were were just barely four hours into our drive home!

A few miles up the road and the vineyards disappeared into mountains covered with evergreens. Evergreens, covered in snow!

I am talking about LOTSA snow! Check out the tire on the back to the SUV and look on his roof top! This is some serious snowfall for the end of September.

We clearly weren't prepared for this. I was still in my capris, tank top, and sandals from having breakfast poolside in Sardinia. How was I to know I would need a parka and boots by afternoon?

So long sunny vineyards, winding brooks, and olive trees. Hello winter?

I am so happy that we didn't relocate to the mountainsides of Austria. Imagine having to see this outside your door and look into the valley and see people in shorts throwing a frisbee!

Unfortunately, the snow fell harder the closer we got to Innsbruck and as the sun was setting, it was turning into a white knuckle drive for my husband (I refuse to drive through the mountains. Fly over them,ok, but driving through them is not going to happen.) As you can see, things are getting less visible by the moment.

This shot shows you that we are not just in a snow storm, but above the clouds that are making our drive more frightening each second. This photo reminds me of many I have taken from an airplane, it's that high up!

There is no choice but to push on and pray that the closer we get to the German border, the clearer the weather will become. So on we go, leaving Innsbruck and heading for München, weather be damned! Rally the troops and forward ho!

This is a look back out of the rear view mirror on our descent from the last tall mountain. So long snow, fog, clouds, and big mountain tops. We are on our way home and all of the scary driving is behind us.

And to think that we had left this just hours before...Next time, I will bring along my mittens and my muck lucks.

REAL or FAKE

2011-10-15T13:42:00.000+02:00

You gals are good! About yesterday's post, Choice B is the real deal, but I agree with G in Berlin. It matters in the least. We opted for the Italian handbag in cream because my mother-in-law is Australian and they are heading into their summer season. I know she will love it and we loved the savings. It isn't considered a knock off, but I couldn't believe the similarities. Thanks for playing. Just shows you don't need to spend the BIG bucks to get a nice handbag, IMHO.

CAN YOU TELL THE REAL DEAL?

2011-10-14T09:01:00.000+02:00

CHOICE A

CHOICE B

While in Italy on vacation, I did a bit of Christmas shopping and purchased a handbag for my mother-in-law. One is a real Salvatore Ferragamo which retails for €1050.00 ($1,441.00). The other is from an Italian designer at one-quarter of the price. Can you guess the Ferragamo?

WEDNESDAY'S HODGEPODGE

2011-10-12T08:04:00.000+02:00

I am thrilled about being back home and being able to participate in Joyce's Wednesday's Hodgepodge. I so enjoy responding to her intriguing questions, reading the responses of fellow participants and finding that we have so much in common. What I like the best is being able to follow the other bloggers who I am beginning to know. Please join in the fun and click on the badge above to access this week's Hodgepodge. I guarantee you will enjoy it!

1. Have you ever been 'asked' to report for jury duty? Were you chosen to serve? If not, were you happy or disappointed?

I was summoned to jury duty and was informed it was a capital offense, a double homicide where two men were stuffed into a trunk of a car and it was set ablaze. It was over a drug deal gone bad. At the time, I was the drug coordinator for the high school I taught at. The prosecutor really wanted me, but the defense team had me tossed off. Good thing too because before I was tossed off I had to go into the judges chambers and answer a question in front of the defendant. The question was, "Do you believe in capital punishment?" I never anticipated the question and having to answer while the accused looked me straight in the eye was unnerving. I kept thinking, "What if he gets off and comes looking for me if I said I could pull the switch?" I know, too many Hollywood movies, but I was scared out of my wits. Nevertheless, I answered as honestly as I could. I was not happy or disappointed. I was relieved not to have to decide this man's fate. Although I think jury duty is our civic duty, it is also something that takes you far away from your comfort zone and I do not relish ever being in a position where I determine whether a person lives or dies. To me, that is God's decision. Not mine.

2. On a scale of 1-10 (with 10 being very), how mechanically inclined are you? Give an example to back up your answer.

I am more mechanically inclined than I would admit to, surely. When push comes to shove and I have to do something mechanical, I seem to find a way. I will Google the procedure, study it, ask questions, and then tackle it. I surprise myself time and again with my ability. I guess I underestimate my competence in things mechanical.

3. Beets-cabbage-cauliflower-butternut squash....of the four, which is your favorite fall vegetable?

Butternut squash.

4. What do you recommend to overcome self-pity?

I have found that extending myself to help others, less fortunate, takes away all of my self centeredness. There is no time to wallow in the mud when you are too busy helping others. An added bonus is that you begin to feel good about yourself and what you can do to make others feel better. A win/win situation.

5. Do you enjoy classical music?

Yes, I do, although I am fairly ignorant about it. Recently I have put a folder of classical music on my ipod. I have no idea what is good or not so good, so I just chose by listening to it on i-tunes and then downloading it. I like to listen to it when I walk or when I am sunbathing. I find it very relaxing. I also love symphonies and fortunately we have a very good one here in Germany and many outstanding orchestras throughout Europe.

6. October is National Book Month...what's on your reading list this month?

I am currently finishing The Lotus Eaters, by Tatiana Soli, and loving it. I need to finish it next week for my book club. Then I will begin, The Wedding Officer, by Anthony Capella, for December and A Pale View From the Hill, by Kazue Ishigure, for January.

7. What is your idea of 'cute'?

Oh, boy. As a former high school English teacher, I would chastise my students for overusing this word. Instead, I asked them to be more specific. What was it that they found "cute" and to elaborate on this quality. So, heeding my own advice, I would say that my idea of "cute" would be anything I could pet (like a dog or cat) or pinch (like a baby's cheeks or my husband's dimples). Other than these examples, I would have to use better adjectives like "charming," "dainty," or "delightful."

8. Insert your own random thought here.

This evening we listened to CNN and learned about the National Security Forces, the FBI, CIA, Homeland Security, and police force foiling the assassination plot, paid for by the country of Iran, intended to kill the ambassador of Saudi Arabia on American soil. It was to happen in a restaurant that would have had members of congress in attendance and would have likely killed and injured a large amount of people. Our government is holding Iran responsible.

I say, "Job well done, America!" How fortunate are we to have a vigilant security force! We have an awesome track record so far of keeping danger far from us. Thank you, United States of America, once again!

BONJOURNO!

2011-10-11T21:12:00.000+02:00

While I love Venice and all things Italian, I could never bring myself to play with these birds (pidgins?). Call me paranoid, but I lived in Shanghai, China during the SARS epidemic and the fear of avian flu is just to strong to deny. Brave souls seem to throw all caution to the wind to have their moment in the sun with our feathered friends. Me? I just love to photograph them!

Ewww! Just what are they thinking? And it isn't just the few and far between that love to cavort with these avian creatures. At any given time in the Piazza St. Marco you can see dozens of people pretending they are human perches. Freaks me out.

The last time I was in Venice was two years ago. I took my mother-in-law from Australia and we spent a few days sightseeing before we met my husband flying in from Portugal. The next day we left for a long anticipated Greek Island Cruise (highly recommend this one!). I didn't do the gondola ride because, well....I was with my mother-in-law and as much as I like her, in my mind, gondola rides are supposed to be romantic. Nuff said.

Eleven years ago I went with my son, then 19. I didn't ride with him for the same reason. So, this time I was with my husband and was looking forward to the ultimate romantic gondola ride in Venice....until I heard the price! Eighty euros for a half hour. If you're not up on your Euro/Dollar conversion, that is $109.00 per half hour. Sorry Giovanni, but I would rather soak that amount into a Louis Vuitton or, in my case, 60 ml of "Eau de Soir," by Sisley of Paris. Which I did the very next day. Hey, a gondola ride for one-half hour versus a lasting and elegant scent? No contest, right?

Next on my agenda was purchasing a Murano glass piece for my living room coffee table which is quite large.

We purchased this coffee table in Jakarta, Indonesia and it is made of coral stone. It is rather large at approximately 4 ft by 4 ft. It has survived countless moves and five different countries (Malaysia, Australia, China, United States, Germany). We love it, although it is extremely heavy to move and coral stone can chip. So far, we have been fortunate to avoid any chips. Since our move from east Munich to south Munich last April, I have changed our decor from red and gold to navy, cream, and shades of teal and violet.

Finding a decorative piece that will fit nicely onto a 4 ft by 4 ft coffee table in the right shade of blue is not an easy task. (No, I did not choose the piece I photographed above. It is a Merano sculpture on the island of Merano in Venice.) Although I did my best scouring both Venice and the island of Murano, I came up empty handed.

This was the intended color:

This was the intended shape (or something similar) but it needed to be very large:

So far, no luck. But I am online searching Murano, E-bay, or wherever I can to find the piece I want. But there was no such animal in Venice or Murano and believe me, I know because I dragged my poor husband into every shop there was to look. The poor soul.

In spite of my shopping disaster and abhorrence for any setting that reminds me of Hitchcock's, "The Birds," I have to say that our visit was everything that we had imagined.

From astonishing architecture to blinding natural beauty, we found Venice to be all that we wanted it to be and more.

THE REST OF OUR SUMMER HOLIDAYS

2011-10-09T23:41:00.002+02:00

Two weeks ago we were basking in the sunshine in Sardinia (see previous post, 9/27/2011) and now we have just completed a week in Padua/Venice, Italy. How we were fortunate enough to have the weather gods looking down on us, I have no idea, but we had a solid week in the low 80's and significant sunshine. (Note my tan above, whoo hoo!). At first, we were unhappy about the prospect of breaking up our holiday into two separate weeks, but we couldn't have asked for better weather as a result.

A post about Venice, Italy would hardly be worth it's salt without the indigenous gondola and gondoliers. In the photo above, the two gondoliers are hoping a tourist will engage him to take them through the sunlit waterways. At approximately € 80,00 for a half hour's ride, the gondolas primarily sit empty while tourists choose to walk the narrow lanes and streets. Haven't they heard about the recession?

While I am out looking for photos, many artists are painting al fresco capturing the last of the sun's rays in an array of hues in oils. Paintbrush in hand, this man is working on the shadows on the cement.

During my stroll through Venice I noticed that not all gondolas are the same. Some look a bit worse for the wear and tear and others have stylish accoutrements such as the one in the photo above. I couldn't help but overhear a tourist comment on this particular gondola by calling it"Princely." What an appropriate adjective to describe this means of transportation.

We chose to sit near the Rialto Bridge and have lunch at a nearby restaurant. They advertised homemade lasagna and it was truly delicious. It wasn't anywhere near this large of a portion. I think my resizing has given you the wrong impression. It looks absolutely mammoth in this photo.

People walking up and down Venice's charming canals forget that this is a living city where people go to work, the supermarket and the cleaners. The photo above was taken as a man leaned out of his window to water his window boxes.

Venice has to be one of the world's most romantic cities. I have been there twice before. Once with my 19 year old son in 1995 and once with my 78 year old mother-in-law. Both times I wished to return for a romantic look at Venice and this was the perfect time to do it. My husband had never seen Venice and was struck by it's beauty and charm. Together we spent nearly 9 hours on one day and another 4 hours the following day. We did a bit of shopping (I'll save this for another post) and enjoyed the delightful weather. As evening came we looked for a romantic place to have a few drinks and dinner near the water. I'm sure we will return to Venice in the future. It is truly a unique city.

WEDNESDAY'S HODGEPODGE

2011-09-28T08:35:00.000+02:00

I have been vacationing and it has been difficult to keep up with Joyce's mime, but this week I am back and I intend to give it my all. If you care to join, just click on the badge above and give it a go. I'm sure you will enjoy it.

1. It is officially fall here in North America...I realize not everyone who participates in the Hodgepodge lives in North America but if you do, what's your favorite memory of Summer 2011? If you're not in North America, what's your favorite memory of the season just ending on your side of the world?

My favorite memory of the summer of 2011 would have to be the time I spent with my son's and their families back home in the U.S. Because I live far away from the family back in Ohio, my best memories are of the times I can be with them.

2. Your favorite nut? You know I mean the edible kind, right?

I am not a nut person, but of all of them, I would say cashews.

3. What activity puts your sense of balance to the test?

Anything having to do with descending stairs, hills, or mountains. I've torn my meniscus in my left knee more times than I want to admit to and this is the activity that puts me off kilter the most. Other than that, I'm game to try anything, at least once.

4. How would you describe your sense of humor?

Hum, I tend to find humor in slapstick and love it when people don't take themselves too seriously. I'm awful at telling jokes, but as a former high school teacher, I am pretty good at finding humor in almost any situation. Laughing is good for you!

5. September 28th is National Ask a Stupid Question Day...what's your stupid question?

Always wanted to know why there is Braille at the drive thru ATM's?

6. Roller skates~hula hoop~jump rope...which activity would you most enjoy? Yes, you have to choose.

Most certainly hula hoop--the meniscus thing again.

7. What's your most sentimental possession?

Any piece of jewelry my husband buys for me as a surprise is going to qualify. These pieces mean so much to me because he gave them to me from the heart.

8. Insert your own random thought here.

Can the Christmas holidays only be 87 days away? How did that happen? OH! Happy Rosh Hashana (Jewish New Year) today to all of my Jewish friends!

SARDINIA

2011-09-27T13:23:00.000+02:00

We've returned from our week in Sardinia and we're both sporting a lovely tan and the smiles haven't left our faces yet. This vacation was meant to be all about sun, surf, and sand and it did not disappoint. We have not had such a relaxing vacation in years and it was just what we needed. No appointments, no agendas, and no deadlines. We woke when we felt like it, beached when we wanted to, and stayed until the sun went down. The temperatures were in the high 80's each day and a gentle breeze off the Mediterranean allowed us to bask in the sun as long as we wished. A better week we could not have picked.

Our trip began when we drove from Munich, Germany to the port city of Genoa, Italy. We spent the night in Genoa and took the ferry to Sardinia the following night. The photo above is Christopher Columbus' house (on the right of the towers). He was born in Genoa and they take great pride in his accomplishments.

The ferry took our car and we spent the night in a cabin. The ferry was actually a cruise ship with four dining rooms, two large bars. a play room, a movie theater, and a pool! We arrived in Sardina 10 hours later at 7:30 am rested, showered and fed and then got in our car and drove out of the ferry into the town of Olbia.

Our hotel was in Esmerelda, Cale de Volpe; a section of Sardinia where all of the beaches are. You can see the hotels begin on the left top of the photo.

The beach was just behind our hotel and as you can see it was a beautiful shade of aquamarine with a white sandy beach. The water was so clear that you could see the bottom of white sand. I believe the water and the air temperature were nearly the same. It was refreshing without being a shock to your body when you entered the water.

Sardinia is known for it's red wines which the Italians call "black" wine. Much has been written about the longevity of the Sardinian folk and they attribute their long life span to this wine. Must be the high anti-oxidents. We found it delicious. The photo above of the grape arbor was taken near our hotel. Vineyards are everywhere.

Because of it's many inlets, Sardinia is considered a favored spot for many who yacht. At almost every turn along the coast you can see all sizes of boats or ships, but sailing in this part of the Mediterranean seems to be the most popular activity.

We are not sailors, but if we were, this would be a sailor's paradise for sure. Plenty of places to set anchor or dock your boat with loads of cafes, restaurants and hotels nearby to set your sea legs. Although, by the look of the watercraft in the harbors, I would venture to say that many of them have facilities on board to accommodate their needs.

However, if they are in the least bit short of bathing suits, towels or, I don't know, let's say champagne...Sardinia has shopping to equal any in any part of the world.

We are not shoppers on vacation and try to use our time to enjoy nature and relaxation. But we are not opposed to enjoying the fruits of nature and we found plenty of opportunity for that.

After all, isn't this what vacations are for? We think so!

WEDNESDAY HODGEPODGE

2011-09-07T10:40:00.000+02:00

It's been a strange week in Munich. The weather has been all over the place. Today it is raining intermittently throughout the day. A perfect day to catch up on all of my correspondence and participate in Joyce's mime, "Wednesday Hodgepodge." Interestingly, her questions had me thinking about fall, the weather, and even natural disaster preparedness. I hope you can participate with us. Just click on the "Wednesday Hodgpodge" badge above and it will take you to Joyce's site where she explains the procedures. Have fun!

1. What is one piece of advice you would give a 'just-turning' 21 year old adult?
Speaking from experience (both of my sons who turned 21 many years ago) I find it difficult to give them advice that they a) want to hear, and b) will heed. That being said, I suppose I would suggest that they reach for the stars and not let anything or anyone put them off their course.

2. Besides cooler weather (or warmer weather, depending on your hemisphere) what is one thing you are looking forward to this fall?

Our vacation to Sardinia next week and then a week in Venice in October. We didn't take a vacation this summer and preferred to wait until all of the kiddies are back in school.

3. What sound lulls you to sleep?
I have trouble falling asleep. If I could be near the ocean, I'm sure that the sound of the waves would be lulling and sleep would come naturally.

4. September is National Preparedness Month...does your family have an emergency 'kit' and/or disaster plan in place?

Our home in the states is in Ohio and in the spring tornados watches and warnings are quite frequent. Everyone knows to go to the basement immediately. We have fire alarms throughout the house and a plan for evacuation.

5. How has your blog changed since you started blogging? Or has it?

It began as a diary of sorts to commemorate our move from the U.S. to Germany. Throughout the 2 1/2 years that we have been living in Germany it has morphed into a blog about everyday life and commentary about all sorts of things. Still, it serves it's purpose of giving family and friends back home an idea of what life is like in Europe.

6. What's something you've recently learned to do on the computer?

My computer, a MacBookPro, does just about everything. My 12 year old grandson showed me how to make a movie, a slide presentation with music, and to make music. Still, I can't say that these activities are that useful to me other than preparing a video for a special occasion. I wish I had this kind of technology when I was teaching high school. I could have made lessons much more appealing.

7. Is a picture worth a thousand words? Elaborate.

One from an experienced, professional photographer or artist that understands his craft can even be better than words. An image, done the right way, can evoke emotions in a way prose cannot. Here are two examples that say all that can be said about the subject of war.

8. Insert your own random thought here.

We are in the midst of making some important decisions regarding investments and business ventures. I am on needles and pins. I wish I had a crystal ball so I could predict the future. Life is so unpredictable now, economically. I hope we make the right decisions.

After meeting with our financial advisor, researching stocks and bonds, reading all that we can about investments, it still feels like we are being blindfolded and tossing a dart at a picture of a donkey taped to the wall.

West Family Adventures: Liebster Award

2011-09-06T00:51:00.003+02:00

Liebster Award

Liebster Blog Award

Kathy from West Family Adventures

has nominated me for a

Liebster Award!

Kathy is a follower who once lived in Germany

and called herself "Frau."

She was one of the first people I blogged with

when I moved to Germany

two years ago.

Thanks Kathy!

West Family Adventures: Liebster Award

The idea of the Liebster Award is to recognize and share blogs with less

than 200 followers.

So, you both receive it (go check Kathy out too!) and then award it

to 5 blogs that you enjoy.

Here's my 5:

Michelle at Jeweled Concrete

Jul at This International Life

Nana at Empty Nest but Full Heart

Betsy at Blog Ness Monster

Betz at Betz White

SLEEP LIKE A RAT

2011-09-01T20:21:00.000+02:00

Das Park Hotel Built from Giant Sewage Pipes

If your idea of a holiday is to live inside a sewage pipe, then have I got the place for you! Das Park Hotel in Austria is just you kind of place. There are 3 concrete drain pipes in a public park in Ottensheim. The rooms are two meters across with storage, light, a bed, and blankets. Sorry, no windows, but there is a sky light and a small window for air. Andreas Strauss built these in 2004. The designer had Austrian artist Thomas Latzel Ochoa put the paintings on the far wall with a coat of varnish to protect them. Voila! Living space!

I could see many uses for this type of living area. Backpackers come to mind, youth hostel, campers and curiousity seekers. The space stays warm in the winter and cool in the summer so there is no need for air con.

The hotel is located in a public park so you wouldn't have to go far for entertainment. They give you a key after you have made your deposit and the room is yours, just like in a real hotel. It has an advantage in that you wouldn't be disturbed by your neighbor with paper thin walls. My only question is this: "Where do you go to the loo?"

HODGEPODGE WEDNESDAY

2011-08-31T23:31:00.000+02:00

1. Do you think the world became a more dangerous place on September 11, 2001 or are we just more aware of the danger? How has your own life changed as a result of that day?

It is more dangerous to us in the sense that tragedy has come to OUR soil. No, my life is not that affected by it.

2. Did you think your parents were too strict when you were growing up? How about in hindsight?

My father was the Dean of Boys in charge of discipline at my high school. I lost the battle before it began.

3. Share one random but candid fact about yourself.

Today is my birthday!

4. Would your nearest and dearest describe you as simple or far too complicated?

No doubt complicated.

5. What is your favorite stadium or carnival food?

Hot pretzels are my fav whether they are at a stadium or a carnival.

6. Tornado, hurricane, earthquake...how many of these natural disasters have you experienced? Which do you think would be the scariest?

An earthquake in Indonesia. I slept through it.

7. Labor day weekend is approaching so a work related question seems appropriate. Growing up, did your parents assign you regular chores? Were you paid for doing those chores. If you're a parent do you assign chores to your own children? Why or why not?

Are you kidding? An allowance for me as a child? What is that?
My two boys never got one either. They did chores because it was their duty.

8. Insert your own random thought here.

Birthdays on the other side of the world from my children and grandchildren are not ideal, but the important ones in my life remembered me and contacted me to wish me a happy birthday. I am thrilled that I have so many loving people in my life.

TODAY IS MARKET DAY!

2011-08-30T17:41:00.000+02:00

Each week our village is visited by surrounding farmers who bring in their produce for us to purchase. The produce is organic and fresh. As the summer draws to an end, it won't be long before squash, pumpkin, and sweet potatoes begin to appear. I am anxiously awaiting these vegetables as the ones in the stores are not worth buying at the moment.

In addition to the lovely produce, they bring kegs of delicious olives, sun dried tomatoes, gherkins, fresh cheeses and breads to the market . Right now it is mushroom season and I have been buying them to prepare sauteed over a salad of baby lettuce and arugula. Delicious with fresh tomato, cucumber and balsamic vinegar and oil dressing.

I can't think of a vegetable or fruit that I would need that doesn't exist in this market. They even bring exotic fruits that I have only seen in Asia, such as durian, the fruit Singapore banned because of it's obnoxious smell. But, it is so delicious and sweet. Almost like custard.

The durian fruit is in the basket at the bottom of the photo with the spiny skin. The moment it falls from the tree it begins to give off it's uniquely abhorrent odor. Only the brave dare to slice it open to find it's sweet pulp. Rambutans, the red spiky fruit on the top shelf can be found in Malaysia, Indonesia, Viet Nam, Hawaii, and even Puerto Rico. They have a white, soft, oval seed that tastes similar to a lychee, to me. What a treat to find in Munich!

It wouldn't be a farmer's market without fresh farm eggs. This particular farmer has lines before his stall that are a good 20 feet long. I head out early since the market is across the street, just to be sure to get his eggs before he sells out. He even sells hard-boiled eggs that are amazing. On Friday, he comes again to sell his freshly butchered meats. Lamb, chicken, duck, beef, pork and home made sausages. Again, if you don't get to him early, he may sell out before the day is over.

Here is the mushroom stall with about every kind of mushroom you might imagine. They even sell white truffles if that is what you like to prepare. I love to eat pasta with shaved white truffles, from Italy. Perhaps I will try to prepare my own one day. The possibilities are endless when so much fresh produce is just at your fingertips. Tonight I am preparing a carrot, orange, and ginger cream soup with the lovely carrots I bought. I will let you know how it turns out. It is the first time I have made it.

PINCHING MYSELF

2011-08-29T22:01:00.001+02:00

There are days, such as today, when I have to keep pinching myself to see if it isn't all a dream. Small Bavarian villages, Alpine lakes, clouds that appear to be floating through the sky suspended in air with invisible strings and a crisp blue sky enchants me once again . Today was such a day; unreal as if the true perfect balance of nature conspired together to create a day so gentle and pure that it defied the imagination. Today was a day that I wish could have gone on forever. It was really that good.

We are fortunate to live within 15 minutes of Starnberg lake and 30 minutes from the Ammersee (Ammer lake). If you look closely at the photo I took of these sail boats idly floating on the calm surface of the water, you will see the Alps in the background. On this day, they are nearly blue on the horizon. Depending on the weather they can appear gray, blue, and even purple.

The weather was gorgeous so we took a stroll along the shore admiring the German architecture until our thirst got the better of us. A small cafe suited our needs and the husband decided to do an iced coffee that looked mighty tasty.

I stuck with my usual, and Apfelschole (apple juice with spritzer water.) Since it was so beautiful outside, we chose a small biergarten nearby.

Of course, we could have went rowing or kayaking, took the ferry to the other side of the lake to Herrsching or played miniature golf. Instead, we chose to soak in the afternoon sun and people watch. We were not alone. Nearly every available park bench on the promenade was taken.

Bikes, strollers, skateboards, and rollerblades made their way past us as we took in the sights and just chilled. People of all ages and ethnic backgrounds passed before us. Most everyone was keen on taking the ferry to the other side of the lake.

We chose to while away the hours with the beautiful lake in front of us and gardens like the one above, behind us. Bavaria has so much natural beauty to offer. I still pinch myself from time to time to check that I'm really here and living so close to nature. It has surpassed all of my dreams.

FED EX, WHAT IS THE PROBLEM?

2011-08-26T16:49:00.000+02:00

On Wednesday, August 24th at 1:54 pm, my husband mailed some rather important legal documents by Fed Ex here in Munich, Germany to arrive in Cincinnati, Ohio. He generally leaves nothing to chance and has been "tracking" the documents since Wednesday afternoon by computer on the Fed Ex website. Today, he "lost it" when he logged onto the website and found this (read from bottom up. DE stands for "Deutschland" or "Germany").

Date/Time
Activity
Location
Details
Aug 26, 2011 7:40 AM
Departed FedEx location
NEWARK, NJ
Aug 26, 2011 5:35 AM
Arrived at FedEx location
NEWARK, NJ
Aug 26, 2011 4:06 AM
Departed FedEx location
PARIS FR
Aug 26, 2011 3:18 AM
In transit
PARIS FR
Aug 25, 2011 12:37 AM
International shipment release
MEMPHIS, TN
Aug 24, 2011 11:24 PM
Arrived at FedEx location
MEMPHIS, TN
Aug 24, 2011 10:00 PM
In transit
KOELN DE
Aug 24, 2011 9:15 PM
Departed FedEx location
KOELN DE
Aug 24, 2011 7:26 PM
Arrived at FedEx location
KOELN DE
Aug 24, 2011 6:32 PM
In transit
FREISING DE
Aug 24, 2011 5:58 PM
In transit
FREISING DE
Aug 24, 2011 4:59 PM
In transit
FREISING DE
Aug 24, 2011 2:19 PM
Left FedEx origin facility
GARCHING DE
Aug 24, 2011 1:54 PM
Picked up
GARCHING DE

Why our papers went to Paris, we do not know. We do know why Fed Ex is expensive after witnessing a trip over the Atlantic from Europe and then back again. What is it Fed Ex? What's the problem?

Wednesday's Hodgpodge

2011-08-24T18:22:00.001+02:00

1. What is something that bothers you if it's not done perfectly?
Not much really. I'm not a perfectionist. One thing I dislike is crumbs on a countertop. How anyone can walk by a countertop with crumbs and not stop to clean them us mystifies me. It is so obvious. But I seem to be the only person in my family that is disturbed by it, so I am usually the one to do the cleanup. But, I hardly call that doing something perfectly. I guess I don't get too bothered by minor details.

2. Do you think a 6th sense exists? Explain.
As in ESP or something? Yes, I do believe that there are people with a keen sense of reality and who are blessed with an uncanny ability to look into the future. Some people seem to be much more "in tune" with their surroundings and appear to "pick up" on clues that the rest of us don't recognize. I like to think of these people having a more developed set of sense than the rest of us for whatever reason. I have read that people will develop parts of the brain that are not used in the future. Who knows if everyone will know the future then?

3. Do you say your goodbyes slowly, quickly, or not at all?
I like them to be quick and they are never, "Goodbyes forever." I always add, "Until next time," or "I'll see you soon." And then I make a point to do just that.

4. On a scale of 1-10, with ten being hot hot hot, what level of spice do you like in your food? What's your favorite 'spicy' dish?
No where near a 10, I'm afraid. Perhaps a 4 or 5 at the most. Spicy Tofu is my favorite "Spicy" dish. It is a Chinese dish with hot chili's, minced pork, and tofu. I am addicted to it. P.F. Chang's has an amazing spiced tofu. However, the best I ever tasted was prepared by my Ayi, Shau Gau, in Shanghai, China. Fortunately, she gave me the recipe.

Nestle Dog, Farfel

5. What is one of your all time favorite commercial jingles?

Well, one that has stayed with me throughout my life was the old Nestles commercial. A dog would sing, "N-E-S-T-L-E-S, Nestle makes the very best......chocolate." Then, he would snap his mouth shut and it would sound like two boards hitting one another.

I have no idea why I remember it, but the jingle stayed with me all of my years. I love chocolate and Nestle makes very good chocolate so I am always remembering this little ditty from the commercial back from the early 60's.

6. Plane, train, boat or auto...your preferred method of travel?
Planes are so much faster, so it is my preferred method of travel.

7. What is something you take for granted?

Health, and I am quickly learning that if I don't take better care of myself, my health may not be with me in the future. I've made some lifestyle changes because of it. Time to get my head out of the sand.

8. Insert your own random thought here.

We bought the boxed set of "Mad Men" here in Germany. We've watched Season One and just started Season Two. Of course, seeing so many people smoking in public places was awkward, but to see how many cigarettes they smoked at one sitting was shocking. Yet, I remember my mother smoking constantly when I was a child. She did give it up, cold turkey, in her 50's, but she would have smoked a couple of packs of day in her prime.

Another odd thing is watching a pregnant woman drink alcohol. Then again, who knew the dangers of drinking while pregnant back in the late 50's and early 60's? But it is interesting how I cringe today when I see it and it was socially acceptable and not considered a health hazard for the baby at all back in the 50's and 60's. It makes you wonder what else we are doing today that is unhealthy that one day our ancestors will cringe at. I'm guessing it will be the hormones in our beef, the pesticides in our food, and the pollution in our air. One day, I hope people will be aghast at our heedless attention to the environment and our food supply.

I guess the most disturbing part of watching "Mad Men" is the attitude of the women in their 30's and older. It is as if they exist as mere extensions of their husbands. Their lives are filled with shopping and housekeeping and mostly making their husband's" happy." This attitude spills over into making sure that they are attractive as a way of "Earning their keep." What a sad notion.

Do women today still think that way? It was horrifying to watch, but unfortunately, I recall my own mother and aunts doing the very same things to "Keep their husbands." I would hope that we females have evolved more than that since the 60's. Have we?

"GRAZIE"

2011-08-24T01:32:00.000+02:00

I have a very special milestone coming up in my life; my birthday is at the end of the month. It is a significant birthday and let's just say it isn't one that people tend to let pass without some special celebration. When the hubby asked what I would like to do for my "Special Birthday," I didn't hesitate to tell him that I wanted just the two of us to escape to somewhere romantic.

We are blessed to live in an ideal location in Europe, Munich, Germany. We are close to Italy, Switzerland, Austria, France, and countries like Croatia, Hungary, and Czechoslovakia. So, it was quite an ordeal to narrow down the destinations to one we thought would fit the bill. Fortunately, we chose Sardinia, Italy.

Sardinia is an island so we will have to take a ferry there and back from the mainland of Italy. We chose an overnight ferry to the island where we will stay at a Spa Resort for one week. I can't tell you how excited I am to spend one whole week with my husband ,just being pampered. We've never done it. We've stayed at plenty of resorts, but never a Spa Resort. It is an all-inclusive resort, so our meals, drinks, and spa treatments are included. I get chills just thinking about it.

The resort is on the Northwest side of the island and sits on the ocean. A huge National Forest is within walking distance and we are taking our bikes to explore. Sardinia is known for it's excellent cuisine and for it's luscious wines. I am sure we will have no problem partaking in either.

This will be a birthday that I won't forget, even though the accumulation of years will have made their mark, it will be easier to swallow with some great Italian wine, a beautiful massage, and a Mediterranean menu with my lovely husband who made this all happen.

Although my birthday is at the end of the month, the trip is the week of September 11-18. I don't know how I will get through the next three weeks of anticipation. I have seen photos of the resort and we have discussed the many things we want to do while on the island. Having a full week with my husband without a computer, phone calls, or a set schedule will be wonderful for the both of us. Another good thing is that all of the kids in Europe will have gone back to school by then so we will have a very quiet get away, which I love. Don't get me wrong. I love children and have some of my own, but this is an adult vacation and I am so looking forward to it.

I don't to wish my life away, but September 11th can't come soon enough!
"Grazie tesoro mio marito per questo dono meraviglioso," Thank you for this wonderful gift, my darling husband."

2011-08-22T10:41:00.000+02:00

About three months ago, I removed my acrylic nails and I have regretted it ever since. I love having beautiful nails, I really resent having to spend time in a nail salon to have them done every 3 weeks. My nail tech is fast and she is good, but I still fidget and yawn and practically fall asleep while she is working. Does anyone else have this problem?

Flashy nail polish intrigues me and I love seeing it on someone else. Since I can barely tolerate the amount of time I spend in a nail salon now, I very much doubt I would be willing to spend the extra time it would take to wear some of these nail designs. Still, they are intriguing.

The color above, since it is just an application, would take minimal time. It is a color I have never worn, but I could see myself trying this one. Would you? I guess it is a matter of taste, but I also think it is fun to push the envelope at times and wear something fun for a change. It can always be changed.

T'hen again, I think one can go overboard and the nails above scare me. I love the length and shape of all of these examples. I usually went for a bit longer, more squared look. To be honest, I mostly had them do a French nail technique and loved it.

Perhaps I will go back to my acrylics and the mind numbing time in the salon, but not just now. Summer is here and a nail salon is the LAST place I want to be right now.

DOING THINGS THE GERMAN WAY

2011-08-21T03:13:00.000+02:00

Today we went to visit a local "Bad" (swimming pool) in our community. While there, we were asking the clerk at the desk questions about memberships, hours, etc. and she was extremely pleased to be speaking English with someone. Since it wasn't very busy today, we humored her and spent a few moments with her so she could use her English. During the conversations, she asked where we were from and the hubby said, "Australia" and I told her "America." "America?" she asked. "Isn't there a lot of violence and shootings there like we see in the films?" As I started to explain that what one sees here in Germany is what Hollywood portrays as real, isn't necessarily reality, the husband goes into an uproar about how all Americans carry guns and our crime rate is so far above Germany's.

Now I know he does just this to pull my chain, and between us it is funny and I get it that he is exaggerating just to get a rise out of me. But, after we left I began to worry that her notion of what America is really like is probably no different from what the rest of the world sees. They only see what we (Hollywood) want them to see--a violent America. I guess we shouldn't be surprised when they actually believe it.

Another event that happened today had me practically doing cartwheels across the lawn was when I went to the drug store to refill my prescriptions. I take four different medications daily. I have them refilled for a three month supply. Even though I have medical insurance in the U.S., I rarely leave the drug store under $70.00 every three months. Now, since we are local in Germany, we carry German medical insurance. Today, under the German medical insurance, I paid €18.30 for the very same three month supply!! Imagine! I couldn't! Even though I questioned the pharmacist a number of times, she assured me the amount was correct. Yea for German medical insurance!

We spent another lovely weekend by the lake and I came to appreciate another fact about Germany that I hadn't realized until now. There are no speedboats, motor boats, or jet ski's on German lakes. WHAT?? How can that be? American's would be in an uproar if they couldn't race around in watercraft on the lakes and rivers. What would a weekend on a lake be if not for the yacht, high speed motorboat, or revved up Skido? Not so in Germany. They have been banned for years. Noise pollution and environmental pollution. Again, I just love Germany.

One more tidbit, before I go,that I would like to share with you is how German's pay their bills. Like Americans, they can go online to their bank account and have money transferred to pay a bill. But what they cannot do personally is send a check.

Instead, they take the bill to the bank and the bank pays the bill directly. The bills come in the mail with a detachable form that you write in the amount, your account number, and your signature. You drop it in the slot and off you go. Now how cool is that? No checks to order, ever! No waiting in line at a store while someone writes a check. Like us, Germans use cash, credit, or debit cards; otherwise, all bills are paid directly by the bank. It couldn't be any easier.

We have a lot to learn from our German friends.

TODAY, IN BAVARIA

2011-08-13T21:02:00.000+02:00

It was an overcast, cloudy sort of day today, but the temperature was hovering between 70 - 75° by mid-day. Bits of sunshine managed to escape through the clouds from time to time making it a rather pleasant day for a day trip to Walachensee, Germany, near the Alps.

From our new apartment, the Alps are a stone's throw away. Today we left the apartment at 11:00 am and within 20 minutes we saw them rise from the horizon. It is a good feeling to know that they are this close. Now, on a weekend we can head for the hills (um, mountains) to get away from Dodge.

When you live in a large city, nature and the outdoors mean so much more. We find that scenes like the one above so close to our home are extremely valuable to us. It doesn't matter what direction we drive, we are always presented with pastoral scenes that restore our souls.

"Say hello, cutiepie and greet my readers!" This fellow was eating out of our hands on the side of a road. He and a fellow colt were both grazing in a field with their mothers. Isn't he gorgeous?

He wasn't the only pretty face we saw today. My, my, this cow stopped her grazing to give me the evil eye. She was in good company with her mates in a pasture at the foot of the grand Alps.

Talk about gorgeous. I told the hubby today that it is a good thing that our apartment is only on the 2nd floor and we couldn't see the Alps from there. I want to come upon them and feel thrilled each time as I was today. I'm afraid that if they were visible each day I might tire of their grandeur.

This is the Walchensee surrounded by majestic mountains and full of clear Alpine water. The skies have cleared, as you can see, and provided a perfect day for us to enjoy.

These two fellas had the right idea. Notice how clear the lake is. Oh, and what you may not realize is how cold the water is. No swimming today for us, thank you.

Instead, we chose to go here, lakeside, and have a cuppa. There's the hubby waiting for me to finish taking photos. He is ever so patient with me.

These were planted in the garden and these below.

I am not an expert on flowers, so I can't tell you what they are. I have a feeling the peach colored ones might be Dahlias, but I'm not positive. The wine colored ones grow on a stalk like snapdragons do. But again, I can't identify them. I just know I love them both equally.

I don't think I will ever tire of the perfect fairytale German villages in Bavaria. There is a certain pride in what is traditional and German and Bavarians work hard to keep their villages authentically German. Wouldn't you just love to go inside? Well, you can! It is a guest house open to the public.

This is another guest house in Walchensee. I love the facade and the paintings around the shutters. I'm guessing there is a whole industry of special painters who are able to conform otherwise bland homes and buildings into these glorious masterpieces of German art.

No, I don't think I will ever tire of admiring the building or the art in these small Bavarian villages. What a delight for the eye!

Even the less grand buildings still maintain their integrity and German charm. (Notice the scarecrow in the garden.)

Yes, it was a perfect day at the Walchensee admiring the landscape, the livestock and horses, the lakes and the mountains. Oh, did I mention the trees? The forests were so green and abundantly fertile. Bavaria has had a great deal of rain in the past months, as you can tell.

I am sure we will revisit this area. We were back home by 4:30 pm with plenty of daylight to spare. Hubby wants to ride his bike around the lake and I've spotted a spa on the edge of the lake that is also a guesthouse with saunas, whirlpools, and massage treatments. Whoo, hoo!

BACK HOME IN BAVARIA

2011-08-11T17:18:00.000+02:00

It has been a long hiatus. Practically three months of American spring and summer, but I am back in Bavaria again. It was a whirlwind May as we scurried to get the movers scheduled and leave our apartment in Pasing-Obermenzing and move to our things to Fürstenreid. We were lucky and moved within a week of our scheduled flight for the U.S.

At the moment, I am sitting in my living room while the sun gently warms and eases my back and summer breezes fill the room. Our new apartment in Fürstenreid is everything I had ever imagined it could be. The outdoors has become my indoors! There are windows that open wide flanking the whole southerly wall allowing sunlight to drench our home. This is big for me as I need lots of bright sunlight in my home. A large and generous glass door onto the balcony overlooks a peaceful green garden below (see photo above). We can hear soft trickles of water as the fountain below spills over into the garden pond. Faint traces of sweet rose scents drift up to our first story flat; likely from all of the delightful varieties of roses that planted directly below. Greenery is everywhere from trellises, vines, and trees. We are covered with gardens on every level spilling over with bougenvilla, azaleas and rhododendron. The graceful weeping willow in front of our balcony offers welcome shade and privacy.

I have started to plant many indoor plants so that will be an effortless continuation of the nature outside brought here into the inside. I love this moment, this time, this place. We have created a haven for us to escape the outside world and to bathe in the sunshine and beauty of nature.

Ahhh.... Time to relax and enjoy what we have made.

Pin This!

2011-07-28T22:52:00.000+02:00

I love photography and I am always looking for ways to come up with a new idea for a photo gift or display. Here is one I found on Pinterest that would be so fun to give to a mother. The actual display would be wonderful, but a set of note cards with this photo as the cover would make her day!

Here is another idea for a cute photo for mom and daughter. It could be displayed in both a tot's room or a mom's room. I suppose you could do the same photo every few years to show progression and what a keepsake it would make for your daughter or her daughter!

Wouldn't this be a wonderful photo of twins in these shirts? I love it!

Or, if you don't have twins, you can always reach for one of these! (just kidding).

I think a photo like this for the bride in your family is a must. How cute it this?

If you haven't found Pinterest yet, you must go now and search it out. There are lots of good ideas for just about anything. Art, travel, decorating, baking, flower arranging, and heaps of other fun categories. There are new ideas and inspiration every day. Have fun and let me know if you join (it's free) so I can visit your pins. If you're already a member, forward your pin name so I can follow you!

Tis Done!

2011-07-28T15:35:00.001+02:00

Well, it is finished. The afghan I began nearly one year ago is finally done. I have knitted this on planes, at knitting group, at night while watching German TV, and various other places. It has traveled to Australia, the United States, France, and Italy to name a few. It has been knitted, re-knitted, unraveled, and bundled. It was made for my son and his wife and they are thrilled with it. Their couches are grey and chair with ottoman is red. Just the right length and width to toss over you for a winter's nap.

Although I knit and crochet, this project was knitted.

Now, on to the next project. A knitted sweater for my granddaughter. Soon to be posted.

Wednesday's Hodgpodge

2011-07-27T07:52:00.000+02:00

1. July is National Ice Cream Month...your favorite flavor? Soft serve, hand dipped or frozen yogurt-which do you prefer? And technically yogurt is not ice cream but its hot outside so I'll let that slide for today.

We live so close to Italy that many of the small villages in our area have the "REAL" Italian gelato. There's nothing to compare. Strawberry is my favorite.

2. When you travel do you tend to pack too much or too little?

I have lost count of the number of flights I have taken over the last 12 years since I've been married to my husband. A 100 or more would be my guess. One year alone, while he was working a globally, we flew over 30 times. Packing doesn't get any easier the more you travel either. It's often too much or too little. Rarely do I come back home saying, "I took just the right amount!" One thing I have learned to do over the years, however, is take a nearly empty suitcase to leave room for purchases. Now a days, you have to go to some very remote places on the planet not to find what you need in a pinch, so I rarely sweat it if I've forgotten a toothbrush or a sweater.

3. What's your favorite cleaning product?

Vinegar and water with newspaper does a killer job on the windows!

4. What's the greater tragedy-an innocent person imprisoned or a guilty person set free? Explain.

First, let me tell you that there are no guilty people in prison. Trust me. I worked as a teacher for about three years at a State Penitentiary and I never met one guilty man, seriously. Everyone's innocent. Just ask them! I would see theft in prison with my own eyes and still..... they were innocent. However, a TRULY innocent person is the greater tragedy, methinks.

5. What's the longest trip you've taken by car?

From Ohio to Mexico via Oklahoma to work one summer as a missionary building an orphanage. Total miles? 2934.72 for a total of 44.18 hours according to Map quest. Ridiculously Insane.

6. tennis-golf-canoeing-biking...pick one.

Golf, hands down.

7. What sound drives you crazy?

The sound of teeth running across styrofoam cups. My teeth in particular. Horrid!

8. Insert your own random thought here.

I have been in the U.S. since May 15th! This is the longest stay yet. My husband, after a trip to Machu Picchu on May 20th ,came to the states to stay with me for one week and then left on May 27th. It has been crazy being away from him this long. We Skype each day, telephone, and email but it isn't the same. His emails are getting more and more desperate. I only have six more days until I return to Munich and we can be together again. I have seen everyone I need to see. I have taken care of all of the household repairs and updates. I have even finished an afghan for my son and his wife that I started over a year ago! Time to return home to my sweet, sweet husband. Absence surely does make the heart grow fonder!

Things That I Don't Need, But Would Like to Have

2011-06-20T04:43:00.000+02:00

I just wanted to share some things that have peaked my interest lately. These ceramic bowls are so lovely that I have been coveting them for some time now. Rather than stand on the fence, I'm ordering a set of six. I love the color and texture of these bowls so much.

I started knitting and crocheting about two years ago. I started with hats and scarves, but I have just finished an afghan (photo soon). This one above will be my next project. It is a series of granny squares sewn together to make the afghan. The colors are delightful. I'm loving the teal.

What about this great upholstered chair? It is so classic and although very retro, it speaks in a modern voice. I have a difficult time with patterned furniture and would only use patterned fabrics for throw pillows or curtains. Seeing this chair gives me all kinds of ideas. Now, to find one.

Speaking of retro, how cool are these wind up alarm clocks? It is so funny that now that I am retired and don't need an alarm to wake me up, I show an interest in these throwbacks. But I really do like them, even if they would most likely only be used for decoration.

I doubt that I would ever purchase one of these, but oh how fun is it! I think that each day would be that much brighter if it started with opening the door of this refrigerator. Oh my....

These enameled bowls are just too cute, aren't they? I would love to have a set of them! Actually, I have been gathering up enamel ware, but these bowls are unlike anything I've ever come across. Love them!

I am kicking myself for not picking up one of these in a shop in Savannah, GA. It is a fair trade shop and there were so many things that caught my attention that it was hard to pick an item I loved most. I found a woven basket from Kenya that I love, but I am angry at myself for not taking one of these also.

This bowl is so sweet. I have a thing for birds and would love to have a set of dessert plates/cups/saucers in this pattern. What a joyful pattern!

I am so making these headbands for my granddaughter. So easy to make and so adorable.

I will leave you with an image of something I don't yearn for, this VW Van toaster that imprints the VW logo on your morning toast. This is too kitschy and too "German" even for my taste. But hey, it surely must speak to some one, right?

STILL ON VACATION

2011-06-15T23:56:00.000+02:00

I am still on vacation in the states, but during a lull I found myself reminiscing about when my two boys were still children and what they did for playtime/fun. I found myself remembering all kinds of toys and games that they had from toddlerhood on up. One toy they both enjoyed was this record machine. There were five discs and each played a different song (Twinkle Twinkle, Mary Had a Little Lamb, etc.). I recall how much fun they had with this one.

When they were infants, they had one of these activity sets that lasted well beyond the crib. They were still playing with it when they learned how to walk!

This toy, also by Fisher Price, is a standard still. Stacking rings provided not only fun, but help with teething as I recall. I remember the rings at the bottom of the toy box--never on the toy itself, much to my dismay as a young mother.

As they grew, the toys became a bit more sophisticated. This Water Ring Toss would send the small, colored, plastic rings scattered throughout the water with the push of a button. Hard to believe something so innocent and lacking in technology would amaze them.

The Big Wheels were a big hit with the boys. Five years apart, this tricycle was indestructible and both of my sons used the same one with equal enjoyment. I would venture to guess that this thing outlived two of our cars!

I could never forget this little pull toy! How are little ones today going to pull a cell phone around on a string as they begin to learn to walk?

I found these characters everywhere around the house; in the lounge cushions, in the bathtub, on the window sills, and in my purse. At times, I'd swear that they were procreating. The boys always had one close by.

This last photo isn't one of the toys they enjoyed, but certainly is reminiscent of much of their childhood. Children of the 70's didn't enjoy 15 cent hamburgers, I know. They were 15 cents in 1948 -1968 and when my first son was born in 1972 they cost a whopping 25 cents. Still, I remember it was a treat for them.

CABELLA'S IN DUNDEE

2011-05-23T06:35:00.000+02:00

The two grizzly cubs on the left are my grandchildren sharing their photo with the little ones on the right who just happened to want to be photographed as well. The large sculpture is in Dundee, Michigan off I-75 in front of Cabella's Outdoor Store. Since hubby and son #3 will soon be heading off to Peru to climb Machu Picchu, trekking poles were on our shopping list.

No, these are not my other grandchildren, but part of Cabella's amazing display of wildlife. Aren't these two handsome?

Papa pointed out the varied animals who had been stuffed and mounted in the store display to our littlest granddaughter who was a bit awestruck with the life-size critters.

Parts of this nature exhibit are a bit violent and show the predatory nature of bobcats, wolves, and mountain lions. Every little girl's fantasy, not.

Her older brother (by 11 months) however, was in his element. This child soaks up information about animals in any way he can. His passion for the outdoors and his love of all of the world's animals is hard to imagine in someone so young. I am so pleased that he is learning about his environment, how to protect species that are endangered, and how to take care of our planet.

It was a great Sunday afternoon with the kiddies as they got more acquainted with the animals that inhabit their part of the country. Although I doubt either child will grow up to be a hunter or fisherman, they surely enjoyed their visit to Cabella's and Papa got his trekking poles!

SAVANNAH

2011-05-20T06:05:00.000+02:00

We have had the good fortune to have traveled to many of the world's great cities and this week proved to be without exception one of the most charming cities we have ever visited. I am referring to Savannah, Georgia.

From the fragrant Oleander blossoms, Spanish Moss, Federalist style architecture, and quaint city squares and fountains, we found Savannah enchanting.

The grace and charm of Savannah, Georgia. There is nothing quite like it.

SUMMER VACATION 2011

2011-05-16T16:28:00.001+02:00

Savannah, Georgia, Maccu Picchu, Peru, Toledo, Ohio, Cleveland, Ohio....we're on vacation.....Will post later...

OSAMA BIN LADEN

2011-05-02T09:56:00.003+02:00

I have just heard the news that Osama Bin Laden was killed. How to react. At first, I was tempted to celebrate as I see my fellow Americans are doing in Times Square, but then I went on Facebook and read our Lord's words, "Those who live by the sword, die by the sword," posted by my son.

A bit of back story about my son is that he and his wife, both Christians, have dedicated their lives to help Muslims who are immigrating into the U.S. Now, with the difficulties in the mideast, more and more people are fleeing war and tyranny and some are finding their way into America. These peopler are innocents, caught in the cross-fire. They have children, livelihoods, neighbors, friends and relatives that they have left to seek freedom and protection. Many cannot speak English and as a result cannot work immediately, cannot complete a rental agreement, and cannot afford necessary medical treatment or medication.

Together, my son and his wife tend to the needs of these people by reaching out, in God's love, to help them in any way they can. It may be to find them clothing and furniture, food, or translation services. Teaching them English is one of the greatest needs that they have. Instead of hating Muslims, they are showing them that our Lord is a loving God and died for them in order that they may live an eternal life with Him.

It is a difficult mission, to show God's mercy to people who believe in Allah. But they are bringing Muslims to the Lord, one person at a time. My son's admonition, not to cheer, not to celebrate, is within God's teachings. We Americans were not pleased to see Muslims cheering and celebrating when the Twin Towers fell. We despised them celebrating and passing sweets out in the street while we were burying our dead. I can feel no differently when the images of Americans celebrating in the streets are broadcast in Muslim countries. Our Lord would not be pleased.

There is no doubt he was an evil man, but God will deal with his eternal soul.

At the moment, the U.S.government has raised the threat level in fear of retribution. Politics are responsible for most of this hatred between Christians and Muslims. We, as believers, are not of this world. As my son said, "We are just visitors."

I pray for the safety of all people; our soldiers, our citizens and the citizens of every country of the world. May there be peace.

‎"I mourn the loss of thousands of precious lives, but I will not rejoice in the death of one, not even an enemy. Returning hate for hate multiplies hate, adding deeper darkness to a night already devoid of stars. Darkness cannot drive out darkness: only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate: only love can do that."

--Martin Luther King, Jr.

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MYSTERY MAN

2011-05-02T09:32:00.002+02:00

via laughingsquid

Does anyone recognize this fella?

HAVE YOU SEEN THIS?

2011-05-02T01:11:00.000+02:00

via laughingsquid

Yeah. A monkey tail mustache. Now why didn't we think of this before now? Find it sexy? Well, be on the lookout. They are sure to hit a town near you!

A FAIRY TALE DAY

2011-04-29T23:04:00.002+02:00

Wasn't the wedding beautiful? Weren't you touched watching William and Kate becoming husband and wife? I thought it was perfect. Well, nearly perfect. I, like many others, was shocked by Prince Andrew and Fergie's daughter's hats and the fact that Mrs. Cameron chose not to wear one at all. But other than that, the wedding went off without a hitch.

I spent the morning at a "Royal Wedding Party" given by a friend who is a Brit and who wanted to share her national pride with this event along with her friends here in Germany. I was asked to bring a Traditional English Trifle, pictured above. From all reports, I pulled it off even though I have never had nor baked a trifle before in my life. I followed a recipe on the BBC website that instructed me to make the sponge cake by scratch along with the custard and honest-to-goodness real double whipped cream! Sinful, it was.

Here is our lovely hostess mixing the Pimms for her guests. While the Pimm's flowed, repeated corks from champagne bottles continued to pop during the nuptials. The women were excited, delighted, and amused as the BBC presented the Royal Wedding and over 2 billion people over the world viewed the wedding.

Being fashionable women, we oohed and aaahed as the guests arrived and their hats were displayed. With the exception of Fergie's daughters, we were thrilled with the gorgeous ornamental hats on view.

We did our best to follow suit and wear our finery and our decorative hats. Wearing a hat, for most women today, is not a most popular accessory in our wardrobe. Choosing the most flattering one can be daunting. Judging by my friends, I would say that their choices were happily suitable for the occasion.

In fact, I would judge the efforts of my fellow Royal watchers as being very successful, indeed. Any one of us would have been quite at home in Westminster Abbey today, had we received an invitation, that is.

After the wedding, and before the desert, we participated in a quiz about Merry Old England. To help the non-British, we were given a handicap. There were prizes for the winners; a Royal tote bag, Royal biscuits, and a Royal notebook.

Unfortunately, even with my handicap, I was only able to answer 7 out of 25 questions about British Royalty correctly.How was I to know that Diana's step-mother whose name was Rain was nicknamed "Acid Rain" by Diana and her siblings? I did know the date of Diana's death; however, it was August 31st, my birthday.

This young lady was a very talented baker and made magnificent creations to help us celebrate the monarchy.

It was a fantastic day. A thrilling day watching the Mountbatten-Windsor family share in the marriage of the Duke and Duchess of Cambridge.

Great drinks, great food, great friends, and a great celebration.

I will always remember where I was when Wills married Kate. In Munich with my wonderful friends.

WEDNESDAY HODGEPODGE

2011-04-27T11:15:00.002+02:00

We are in the middle of Spring Break here in München, Germany. Families are on vacation and the kiddies don't start school until Monday, May 2nd. Most everyone will celebrate May Day in their villages on Sunday. We don't have school age children with us here in Germany, they have all grown up and some have children of their own. But we will be very busy on May 2nd, nevertheless. Our movers come on the 2nd and will return on the 3rd to take all of our household belongings to our new residence here in München. It will be fun to start again in a new apartment.

I will not join in "Wednesday's Hodgepodge" next week due to unpacking, but I will try to join in the following week. Joyce outdid herself again and provided us with delightful questions to ponder this week. I had great fun with these. Join in by clicking on the badge above to join in.

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1. What is something that bothers you if it is not done perfectly?

Mani's and Pedi's. Fortunately, I have found an excellent nail tech who is diligent and knows just how I like my finger nails and toes done. The best part is that I only have to go once a month when she does them and every sixth visit is free!

Ooops! This is hubby's foot, not mine.

2. What is one of your best childhood memories?

My parents owned a recreation complex in our city back when I was a child. It was called, Toledo Swim Club. In the summer we swam from sun up to sun down and all of our friends were from the swim club.We joined the swim team, diving team, played basketball, volleyball, handball, and all sorts of organized games. There was never a dull moment and we were physically active constantly in the summer months. The best part was that our parents were there every day with us. We have great childhood memories of being there all summer long.

3. Do you plan to watch the Royal Wedding and when was the last time you wore a hat?

Yes, I will be watching it with anticipation. I have been invited to a "Royal Wedding Party," here in Munich by the women in the Munich International Women's Club of Munich. The women from Great Britain are gathering to celebrate the nuptials. The women are required to wear dresses or suits and hats. (I hope to take photos and post them for you all to see.)

I wore a hat (floppy one) yesterday when we visited Bad Tolz here in Germany. The sun was very bright and it kept my face from burning.

4. Where do you fall in the birth order in your family? Do you think this has influenced your personality?

First. I was five years older than my sister and brother (twins). I was asked to help out a lot when I was only 5 and I think it made me more responsible at a very young age.

5. Where do you think you spend most of your money?

I don't have to "think" about it, I "know" where most of it goes -- to travel! We have children and grandchildren in two other continents and we live in the third. It makes seeing one another very expensive. Plus, we have committed to taking each of our 10 grandchildren on a trip of their choosing. One went to China, one to Hawaii, one to Europe, and the next will go to Australia next year. That leaves six more to go!

Other than that, it goes primarily to investments and retirement funds. We hope the future will leave us a little nest egg.

6. When you need to confront someone would you rather communicate in person, on the phone, by email or by letter? Why?

Email is the worst way to confront someone. They can always twist your words to suit their purpose. Telephone is the second worst way to confront a person because you don't see their face and non-verbal cues are just as important as verbal ones. The only effective way, in my opinion, to confront someone is face - to - face; that way, there can be no misunderstandings.

7. Dodge ball, freeze tag, kickball or jump rope? You have to pick one.

Jump rope--once upon a time.

8. Insert your own random thought here.

I have a very big birthday coming at the end of this summer. I told my husband that I didn't want a party and I don't need any gifts. He asked if I would like to go on a trip with him. I said, "Yes, please!" (See what I mean about money & travel?)

He will not tell me where we are going. It is going to be a surprise. All I know is that we will be somewhere for one week. Other than that, I will just have to trust him, which I do. Actually, he is much more adventurous than I am so it could be just about anywhere, doing anything. I hope I can hold out and wait; I am so, so curious!

It's a Dog's Life

2011-04-22T13:23:00.001+02:00

Ok, I get it. Shopping is an exhausting pastime. There have been many times I have wished I could just drop down on the floor and rest after a shopping spree. This fellow is no different. I found him lying, just like this, at the Oberpollinger Cafe in central city Munich. I asked his owner if it would be ok to take his photo and she agreed. He never so much as fluttered an eyelash as I flashed my camera. He was even snoring!! Poor fella.

Easter Gone Terribly Wrong

2011-04-21T10:24:00.002+02:00

This is a sad Easter tale of a surprise gone terribly wrong. The little boy in the photo is my sweet, sweet grandson in Orlando, Florida. We were on vacation and his well-meaning Mimi (me) thought it would be wonderful to hire an Easter Bunny on Easter morning to visit the children on our Florida vacation. I had no idea that once the Easter Bunny helped me wake up my sleeping grandson that he would be scared out of his wits! As you can see, the Easter Bunny was not a big hit with this grandchild. The best laid plans of mice and men.....sigh...

On a brighter note, here is the recipe some of you have asked me to copy. The Rhubarb Crumble, a distinctly British dish that I hope to make next week for the "Royal Wedding Party," was delicious. I had no time to make the trifle, but I will experiment before Will's and Kate's wedding and let you know how that went as well.

Rhubarb Crumble Recipe
(so quick and easy-- delicious warm with real whipped cream)

James Martin’s classic rhubarb crumble recipe, below, is what I used for yesterday's mahjong club. It was wonderful served warm with real whipped cream. I was happy to find the recipe on BBC recipe page. It was so easy and a good reason to use the fresh rhubarb in the stores now. Enjoy!

Ingredients

10 sticks of rhubarb
4 tbsp water
8 tbsp caster sugar
1 tsp powdered ginger
110g/4oz butter, softened
110g/4oz demerara sugar
180-200g/6-7oz flour

To serve
double cream

Preparation method

Preheat the oven to 180C/350F/Gas 4.

Cut the rhubarb into 7½cm/3in long sticks and place on an oven tray, sprinkle with the water and caster sugar and roast in the oven for 10 minutes.

Once cooked, remove from the oven, sprinkle over the ginger and mix well.

Fill an ovenproof dish about 4cm/1½in deep with the rhubarb.

Rub the butter into the flour and sugar to make the crumble topping. Sprinkle over the rhubarb and bake in the oven for 35-45 minutes, or until the crumble topping is crisp and golden-brown and the rhubarb filling has softened and is bubbling.

Remove and allow to cool slightly before serving with double cream.

Enjoy!

WEDNESDAY HODGEPODGE

2011-04-20T09:22:00.000+02:00

Happy Easter everyone! Joyce sure had Easter on her mind when she thought about which questions to include in today's "Hodgepodge." I will get right to it, but click on her badge above if you would like to be a part of the "Wednesday Hodgepodge.' It is always surprising and meeting people from all over the world is one of the great benefits.

1. What are your plans for Easter Day/weekend?

We are going to spend the four day weekend outside. Germans get Friday and Monday off, yippie! Since we move the following week, we plan to lay low and enjoy the gorgeous weather with friends. A picnic by the Isar River, a bike ride around a lake, have friends over for a cookout, and take long walks in the forest. Most importantly, we will celebrate the risen Lord.

2. Besides Jesus, what one person from The Bible would you most like to meet and why?

Mary. I know it sounds incredulous, but can you imagine parenting Jesus? I would love to just listen to her tales of motherhood and hearing about our savior as a child. Yep, Mary would be my choice.

3. What is one modern day convenience you didn't have as a child that was easy to live without?

Of course a cell phone, ipod, ipad, and all of those other technological devices that are supposed to make our lives easier were not around when I was a child and it was inconvenient to wait until you were at a phone to make a call. I would not want to go back to those days. But I think the one thing I couldn't go without would be a computer and a printer. Typing on carbon paper and erasing with a rubber circle with a brush on the end of it was Draconian and those days, thank you Steve Jobs and Bill Gates, are gone forever.

4. Are you more right brained or left brained? If you don't know what that means there is an interesting little quiz here.

Without a doubt, right-brained. (Literature and Art teacher? Can't get much more right-brained than that.) But I married a scientist/chemist/engineer who is 99.9% left-brained and I love him to death!

5. What is something you intended to do today but didn't? Why?

Very good question, Joyce, because I always have things left over from my "To Do List." I want to make a Traditional English Trifle and a Rhubarb Crumble for my mahjong group that will be here tomorrow. But the real reason for making them is that I have to take a dish to "The Royal Wedding Party" next week and since I have never made either before I thought I would practice with them. (Hope they don't mind).

I also have to find/make a proper hat fitting for the Queen. This is a task I just keep putting off each day. Any ideas?

6. Cadbury Creme Eggs or Reeses peanut butter?

Although both are nice, I would choose neither. Since Europe has the most amazing chocolate, I would opt for one of them instead, sorry. If you're going to have the extra calories, you might as well do it right! (My favorite, Neuhaus milk chocolate from Belgium.)

7. Who was your favorite cartoon character when you were a child?

This is a real stumper. Hummm...I guess I would have to go with Mr. Magoo. If you, like me, are old enough to remember him, you have my blessings.

8. Insert your own random thought here.

I just read in the German "Local" that a 50 year old woman has been arrested burglarizing a home while the family was at the cemetery burying a loved one. They caught her after many other burglaries when they put two and two together and realized she was reading the obituaries in the paper and then targeting the grieving family. Can you believe this?

Nothing Says "I love you" like.....

2011-04-19T16:12:00.000+02:00

I am surprised that the Germans with their preference for all things pork did not invent this first.

This is one of the many entries in the Instructables Bacon Contest which runs through May 8th.

WHY I LOVE GERMANY

2011-04-18T12:23:00.001+02:00

Hardly a day goes by that I don't marvel at our fortune of living here in Bavaria where nature is so abundant and accessible. But for a few moments walk outside our front door, we can be immersed into settings like the one above of the river Würm that meanders throughout Munich. These idyllic panoramas crop up at the most unexpected times. At the turn of a path, at the bottom of a foothill, and even in your own backyard.

When my family and friends ask me why I want to continue living in Germany, it is difficult to explain the part nature plays in my decision. Nature appears almost everywhere, so why Germany? I think it is because the Germans learned to respect nature and protect it long before the Americans did. Because the European cultures were developed far ahead of America, the idea of conservation in the rapidly developing nations took place in the early 1800's, especially in Germany. They learned early on that their resources needed to be protected and cultivated lest they lose them altogether.

Bavaria was one of the frontrunners in terms of forestry. With the Alpine lakes and streams providing the cities with the most crystal clear mineral water, Bavaria has taken measure throughout the centuries to protect their natural environment.

Nature play an enormous part in the lives of Bavarians. They are avid hikers, bikers, and skiers. Rafting, canoeing, and water sports of all kinds are popular here. Alpine walking is growing in popularity and has captured the imagination of the over 60 set with it's great benefit of helping to reduce the side effects of aging such as arthritis, muscle and bone degeneration, and heart disease. On any given day the amount of people out-of-doors would put most American cities to shame by comparison. It is sad that we, as a nation, have given up our connectedness to nature and have allowed ourselves to be prisoners in our own homes and slaves to our automobiles. I know I sound like Thoreau, but living in Germany has created a need that I never knew existed in me. A need to be a part of my natural environment.

Here in Bavaria, the Bavarians take every opportunity to provide natural beauty around them to coerce them to appreciate what nature has to give. From small gardens, to ponds, to little vignettes such as the cascading water over stone steps, they care for and nurture what has been provided for them.

I am certain that it is because most Germans live in small apartments and prefer to be outside that they have been diligent in creating spaces where people can congregate outside. Small cafes with outdoor seating, fountains with stone stools and steps for people to rest, and benches tucked alongside of paths cutting through forests and prairies are plentiful and attractive.

It amazes me the number of walkers or bicyclists who will stop in the forest, on a mountain side, or alongside a castle grounds somewhere and pull out a blanket with a picnic basket and enjoy the day admiring the view. I have purchased a blanket with a plastic backing for such a purpose. I have also bought a picnic satchel for my bike with one side for storing plates, utensils, and the all-important wine bottle, and the other side that is insulated to store cheeses, bread rolls and fruit.

But, if we hop on the bikes and forget the bike satchel, we know that we can always find a neighborhood beer garden along the way. The trouble is to decide which one to try,-- there are so many to choose from. For example, we can choose Nuremberg sausages, roast chicken, pork ribs, or "frikadelle mitt baguette", a German type of hamburger.

Either way, we will be spending our days outside enjoying the fresh air and hearing the birds sing until the sun sets. What can be better than this?

KÖNIGSEE (King's Lake)

2011-04-15T16:44:00.002+02:00

Nestled snugly between the Berchtesgaden Alps is the Königsee, Germany's third deepest lake formed by glaciers in the Jurrasic Rift during the last ice age. The lake is more like a fiord in Norway due to the steep mountains surrounding it that rise up to nearly 9,000 feet.

A couple of unfortunate historical events were located near this lake. In 1944 a sub camp of the Dachau concentration camp was located nearby where Heinrich Himmler had a home built for his mistress Hedwig Potthast. Also, it is close to the "Eagle's Nest" the site of Adolf Hitler and Eva Braun's suicide at the end of World War II. Despite such infamous surroundings, Königsee is better known for it's crystal clear water. It is advertised as the cleanest lake in Germany.

This is largely due to the fact that the German's have only allowed battery powered driven passenger ships, row boats, and pedal boats on the lake since 1909. Because it is located in such a way that it is surrounded by mountains, it is also known for it's clear echo. Back in the early 1900's the boat captains would fire a cannon so the passengers could hear the echo repeated up to seven times. Today, the captain will play a flugelhorn or trumpet and you will hear the notes echo-echo-echo.

St. Bartholomi, a small pilgrim church, is on a penninsula on the western lakeshore. It has a small fishery and a restaurant with a beer garden. Hubby and I had a traditional schnitzel and pomme frittes (French fies) in the beer garden. Of course, we washed it down with a tasty helles

(beer).

You can see the beergarden (barely) under the trees that are just beginning to bud as springtime arrives in Bavaria. The church, with the red roof and towers, faces the lake and we are looking at the rear, or back of the church in this photo. There is no lakeside path around the Königsee because of the surrounding high mountains. You can only reach the southern edge by boat or the hiking trails up in the surrounding mountains.

Since there is very little, if any, habitation in and around the lake, it is exceptionally quiet and peaceful. There are a few small hotels in the municipality of Schönau am Königsee just south of Bertchesgaden, but that is about all in the way of a community. It would be the perfect getaway if you were in the mood to connect with nature, row, hike, or just kick back and enjoy the scenery.

We highly recommend the schnitzel and what's not to like about German beer? Soon the tree arbor will be filled out and plenty of shade will be on hand for the diners who visit this summer. During our visit the termperature was in the high 70's and we were delighted to soak up those rays.

Königsee, it doesn't get more peaceful than this....

SUNBATHING AND TURRETS

2011-04-14T20:53:00.000+02:00

Isn't this wonderful? Check out how many people chose to recline on the river bank in Salzburg this past weekend. The weather was in the low 80's and the Austrian's took advantage of the good weather by visiting the Salzach river.

We didn't sunbathe along the river, but we did take some time out from our wanderings to watch these guys play chess in the town square. I had the distinct feeling that they were chess sharks out to see who they could hustle, but I can't prove it.

Then we decided to walk up the mountain in the background of this photo to the Alte Stadt (Old City). There is a cable car that takes visitors up the mountain, but it was not open for the season yet. You know what that means....we hoof it.

This is the view of Salzburg from about midway up the mountain to the Alte Stadt.

And this is the view from one of the windows in the fortress. It is the opposite view of that of the city of Salzburg.

Just to give you an idea of how steep the climb was, here is one of the uphill stretches. To get to the top, multiply this by a good 8 more uphill stretches. I hate climbing, but it was worth the effort to see the ancient fortress and town.

Here is a photo of the view from inside one of the towers looking out. You can see the fortress wall on the right. ( My legs ache just looking at this one.)

One of the many windows in the fortress. This one did not have a cannon mounted behind it.

This one did!

It appears that people still live within the fortress walls. I hope they have a burro to carry their groceries up the mountain since cars are verboten.

Beautiful architecture, but I bet they didn't have electric lights along the building walls back in the 10th century.

But I bet that they had these back then and I am so glad they did. What a great refresher after climbing 800 feet straight uphill!

From the windows of the fortress, you can see the Alps in the background so close that you think you can reach out and touch the snow. It is truly a sight to see and experience. This photo doesn't do them justice.

This photo may give you a little better idea. It was from a different side, but the size is clear when you compare it to the church spire in front of it while knowing that it is also on the top of a mountain in front of it. Having been raised in Ohio on flat land, I am always in awe of the majesty of the Alps. We will gladly return to Salzburg being that it is only a two hour drive from our home in Munich.

WEDNESDAY HODGEPODGE

2011-04-13T18:24:00.000+02:00

It looks like the badge from The Other Side of the Pond is not working today. I am sure it will get fixed soon and I will post it on next week's Wednesday's Hodgepodge. I had fun with these questions. They are always a bit unexpected yet nicely tied in with the current holidays or news.

1. Would you rather talk to everyone at a crowded party for a short time or have a significant conversation with two people?

We do parties, part of my husband's job, but I don't find the conversation that significant unless you are the one doing business. So, because of that, I would much rather have a chat with another person about something significant or even insignificant!

2. What objects do you remember from your parent's living room?

A cherrywood table with folding leaves. The table legs were unique. I still have it in my home here in Munich today. I took a photo to show you, but my photos are not accessible today for some reason. Guess it will have to wait.

3. Do you hog the bed? Steal the covers? Snore?

Me? Steal covers? Snore?

4. Speaking of Easter dinner....what is your favorite way to cook/eat lamb? Or does just the thought of that make you squeamish? If you're not cooking lamb what will be your entree du jour on Easter Sunday?

My husband is an Aussie and Down Under lamb is their "other beef". To honor the motherland, we do a leg of lamb with roasted vegetables (pumpkin, onions, potatoes, carrots, asparagus). I just spray them with olive oil and roast them on a tray in the oven with a sprig or two of fresh rosemary . The leg of lamb must be accompanied by the prerequisite mint jelly in order to be "true blue," or so says the Aussie.

5. Let's throw some politics into this week's mix-oooohhh...Do you know the whereabouts of your birth certificate and when was the last time you had to produce it to prove you're you?

My birth certificate is in our file cabinet, right next to the desk I am sitting at. I had to last produce it when I got my passport renewed. Doesn't everyone?

6. As a child, how did people describe you?

My mother called me a "night owl" which explains my penchant for burning the midnight oil. She said I had my nights and days backwards and I still find it hard to "get on track! with my body clock. My younger sister called me "bossy." Hey! As the oldest, that's my job. My brother called me "a book worm," with my nose always in a book--the same is true today. My father called me "Daddy's little girl" and I will always consider myself as such.

7. What do you complain about the most?

According to my husband, I complain the most about things that interfere with my convenience. (I had to dig this out of him. At first he said he didn't think I was a complainer. Ha, ha! I love how you can fool some of the people all of the time.) I think he is right. If there is an easier way to do something, but it isn't available, you will hear me complain. I guess I am just not that patient when it comes to making life more difficult than it has to be.

8. Insert your own random thought here.

I have been invited to the Royal Wedding! Not really, but the Royalists here in Munich are gathering for the BBC coverage of the festive event at a home of a friend of mine (who used to work for the BBC.) Dress is formal and hats and gloves are required. I can't wait for the 29th to share with my British, Canadian, and Australian friends what has to be the biggest single celebrated event since the marriage of William's parents, Prince Charles and Diana over 30 years ago!

BEAUTY AROUND US

2011-04-12T23:32:00.000+02:00

If you look closely, you will see the Alte Stadt or Old City of Salzburg. Hohensalzburg fortress sits atop a mountain and overlooks the city of Salzburg. Normally, you would take a suspended cable car to the top but this weekend it was closed because it is not yet the tourist season. So, being the curious tourists that we are, we climbed it. The fortress sits up 800 feet above the city and let me tell you, my legs are still like jelly from the climb. Was it worth it? Yes!

After our climb, we found a relaxing spot to sit and catch our breath in front of this lovely sculpture. It was 80 degrees and we were happy to sit in the sun and admire the beautiful gardens.

I wish I had found the name of this city park, but I was just too exhausted to go searching. It was lovely. Notice the fantastic arbor on the right.

I was fortunate to get a shot of this great looking couple in their traditional trocken.

This photo was by chance and I love that the couple on the bench is reflected by the pair of flowers in front of them. Total coincidence.

We were not the only ones whiling away the afternoon in the outdoors. Bench seats were difficult to find that afternoon. Fortunately, we were able to clinch one.

One of the city's many fountains was this modest one of a young girl squatting in the fountain with birds in her hand, her shoulder, and on her head. So simple and so innocent.

Here is another view of her from the front.

This garden was chock full of flowers so i did my best to capture a few of the more spectacular blooms.

As beautiful as the flowers were, I was also charmed so much by this little guy, that I had to take his photo too.

It was wonderful to sit and examine the beauty that surrounded us.